pauline29
Member
You probably heard it before but I truly believe separated parents is better than parents that stay together and fight/are toxic for each other. Talk about co parenting with the father to figure out how you both envision the future and know that there will be errors and that is okay. Your child doesn’t need you to be perfectI guess I’m scared my child will be affected by having two separate parents
When I wasn’t sure about leaving my partner, I thought about it like that: if it was my child or my best friend in this situation, what would I advice them to do? From that perspective, I was kinder to myself and it helped me feel more secure about my decision.