They don’t believe it’s fibro as the pain I have is in one area only (lower neck and right shoulder).
It’s just so exhausting being ill, being fobbed off and dealing with the emotional trauma of it all.
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It’s just so exhausting being ill, being fobbed off and dealing with the emotional trauma of it all.
I’m all over the place at the mo, not sure if it’s hormones or what, I was fine over xmas (glad it’s over), I just feel drained & emotional etc. annoying because I just want to be like ‘new year, let’s do this’ kind of thing.
I know how you feel. I dunno if its the stuff we're going through but I feel flat, drained, lethargic and all I want to do is sleep or cry. Hoping its new year blues and will wear off soon. Usually I can stay positive, not at the moment! Hope you start to feel better soon
I have written here about my mum passing away, I’ve had a couple of visits from her. The last visit I’d just found out I was pregnant and I told her and she said we know it’s *baby name* now the name wasn’t something I’d ever thought of but I do actually love the name and it will be the babies name when they come. How strange is it to name a baby after something your dead mum told you?
Not at all, in fact I think its very beautiful. I think its lovely that your mum is still part of your pregnancy journey even after she is no longer here in physical form. Congratulations on your pregnancy and I am so sorry for the loss of your mum.
Do you find it scary when your mum visits you? I do and I hate that in itself. I just get really anxious about it happening again. I also think it’s nice about the baby name and you should listen to that
This is lovely. Can I ask how your mum visits you? My dad passed away a few years ago and apart from some very vague dreams about him, I haven't felt anything in terms of him visiting me. I would love a sign or message from him.
I have had visitations from my mum - she got into my bed behind me, but usually she bangs into my aura when she comes up to me to see who my visitor is.
I was told by a psychic that if they love you it feels warm but if they don't it feels freezing cold. So when I feel the warm bump I know she's there.
I went to see a psychic once who described a conversation with a visitor that had been in my house. They hit the nail on the head with everything we'd been talking about.
I can be oblivious though, so a psychic was telling me how my grandad was ranting on the other side at me, as I hadn't been picking up on the signs he'd been sending me.
They've also sabotaged my computer in a job they wanted me to leave.
When my mum was alive she openly told me she prayed every night that I would lose my job.
Thank you so much, wishing you peace!
Deep in the throes of grief last year, I went to a "healer" that a friend recommended just to try something, anything to feel better. I said to her that I wanted signs and haven't had any since my mum first passed away and she had told me that I need to loudly ask my mum to send me something specific. In the car on the way home, I loudly asked for a parakeet (with the windows rolled down on the motorway) and I literally shouted it. A week went by and I forgot I even asked, and two parakeets flew over the garden whilst I was stood staring out one morning. We don't live in an area where parakeets tend to be and I believe she sent it to me.
I have regular, vivid dreams but she's never visited me in them as of yet. Weirdly, my granddad tends to visit me in my dreams quite regularly since my mum died and I like to think it's him telling me that my mum is absolutely fine and he's looking after her once again.
Honestly no it’s not scary because she looked like a normal person just a little bit pale. I’m not saying it was a ghost but it was definitely something. I always expected the dead to be like see through or black and white but no my mum was normal xDo you find it scary when your mum visits you? I do and I hate that in itself. I just get really anxious about it happening again. I also think it’s nice about the baby name and you should listen to that
The first time was not long after she passed she appeared in my bedroom doorway but I’d heard someone walking around and assumed it was my son but he was asleep. I felt no fear just felt so many questions going through my head. I couldn’t physically make a sound and she ignored all my questions and just said she loved me and missed me. The second time I think was a dream (I was awake the first time) and nobody else could see my mum and I said mum you have to know I’m pregnant again and she said we know that’s *baby name*. We didn’t even know the gender of the baby at that point I was only 10ish weeks and mum was right🤍
Thank you. We’re using the name mum mentioned 🤍
I am so utterly delighted for you; what a beautiful experience. Congratulations
Many many congratulations
that is lovely news 
. Your Mum will be with you all the way. I feel my Mum with me too, and she sends me little signs when she’s near xxxI want to feel happy or at least content but I can’t. I feel absolutely guilty when I think back to when I was a baby, a toddler, growing up and hitting all those milestones and how proud and thankful my mother was. How much joy she must have felt to hear me say my first word, to toddle towards her. My mum was told there was a high chance she would lose me. And now I am in my mid 30s struggling to get through the day. And sometimes wishing she didn’t fight so hard to save me.
Even with an increase in my antidepressants I still feel so low. I wish it would stop and my brain was normal.
Even with an increase in my antidepressants I still feel so low. I wish it would stop and my brain was normal.
Thank you, I don’t know where she is but I hope she continues to show up🩷I am so utterly delighted for you; what a beautiful experience. Congratulations
Thank you. I have asked for little signs but I don’t usually get them🩷Many many congratulations
I love this, this is so special
its coming up to 1 year without my mum and I'd love to feel a visit from her. Keep that wonderful feeling, and everytime you call your baby its name its like your mum is there 🩷🩷Me too. You’re not alone and she fought hard because she loved you
you’re struggling because of that love. Your brain is normal and don’t ever think otherwise ok. And what is normal ey