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I’d like to have one day where I’m not crying it’s so hard right now. I passed a hearse yesterday and that set me off alone. I don’t think I’ll ever recover from this.
 
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I’m struggling so so much.
Sorry if some of this seems silly compared to other posts.

(Trigger warning) I had an abortion earlier this week. We decided it was for the best, but it’s been hard. I’m still really really struggling with the stomach/back pain and I can barely get anything done. I just want to feel normal again. I can’t tell anyone at work either…

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I had a dentist tell me I need £5,000 worth of orthodontic treatment, which I don’t have anywhere near.
I’m not saving any money and will never buy a house.
I found out today that my witch of an ex-boss is winning loads of awards and karma isn’t biting her in the butt yet.

I just feel absolutely tit and I have no hope for the future atm!…
 
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I’m struggling so so much.
Sorry if some of this seems silly compared to other posts.

(Trigger warning) I had an abortion earlier this week. We decided it was for the best, but it’s been hard. I’m still really really struggling with the stomach/back pain and I can barely get anything done. I just want to feel normal again. I can’t tell anyone at work either…

Also -
I had a dentist tell me I need £5,000 worth of orthodontic treatment, which I don’t have anywhere near.
I’m not saving any money and will never buy a house.
I found out today that my witch of an ex-boss is winning loads of awards and karma isn’t biting her in the butt yet.

I just feel absolutely tit and I have no hope for the future atm!…
Not silly at all. Don’t have much to offer but just wanted to wish you well and send you a huge virtual hug x
 
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My beautiful son has been diagnosed with Stage 4 Wilms tumour cancer. He is 15 & weeks can’t believe it, he had stage 2 cancer last year & his kidney removed. January his X-ray confirmed tumour had gone & he rang the cancer free bell with pride. Last week his 3 month post cancer check up confirmed he had two tumours in his lungs, following a CT scan this week & results have confirmed the tumour is in both sides of his chest near his heart as well as near the kidney site where his kidney was removed.

To say we are gutted is an understatement. He is being so brave but I am broken inside. They have said it’s curable which is keeping us both going but oh gosh, why my poor son?

Chemo and radiotherapy has been confirmed but surgery is a no go as it’s too close to his heart and main arteries which is too dangerous.

I am also pregnant so it’s bittersweet, I’m carrying a baby I’ve wanted for years after infertility but I’m now going to witness my beautiful son go through harsh treatment to combat the cancer.
 
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My beautiful son has been diagnosed with Stage 4 Wilms tumour cancer. He is 15 & weeks can’t believe it, he had stage 2 cancer last year & his kidney removed. January his X-ray confirmed tumour had gone & he rang the cancer free bell with pride. Last week his 3 month post cancer check up confirmed he had two tumours in his lungs, following a CT scan this week & results have confirmed the tumour is in both sides of his chest near his heart as well as near the kidney site where his kidney was removed.

To say we are gutted is an understatement. He is being so brave but I am broken inside. They have said it’s curable which is keeping us both going but oh gosh, why my poor son?

Chemo and radiotherapy has been confirmed but surgery is a no go as it’s too close to his heart and main arteries which is too dangerous.

I am also pregnant so it’s bittersweet, I’m carrying a baby I’ve wanted for years after infertility but I’m now going to witness my beautiful son go through harsh treatment to combat the cancer.
I’ve no words other than I’m so very sorry to read this ❤
 
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My beautiful son has been diagnosed with Stage 4 Wilms tumour cancer. He is 15 & weeks can’t believe it, he had stage 2 cancer last year & his kidney removed. January his X-ray confirmed tumour had gone & he rang the cancer free bell with pride. Last week his 3 month post cancer check up confirmed he had two tumours in his lungs, following a CT scan this week & results have confirmed the tumour is in both sides of his chest near his heart as well as near the kidney site where his kidney was removed.

To say we are gutted is an understatement. He is being so brave but I am broken inside. They have said it’s curable which is keeping us both going but oh gosh, why my poor son?

Chemo and radiotherapy has been confirmed but surgery is a no go as it’s too close to his heart and main arteries which is too dangerous.

I am also pregnant so it’s bittersweet, I’m carrying a baby I’ve wanted for years after infertility but I’m now going to witness my beautiful son go through harsh treatment to combat the cancer.
I am so sorry; you are all so brave.. Sending a huge virtual hug and hope your way! ❤
 
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My beautiful son has been diagnosed with Stage 4 Wilms tumour cancer. He is 15 & weeks can’t believe it, he had stage 2 cancer last year & his kidney removed. January his X-ray confirmed tumour had gone & he rang the cancer free bell with pride. Last week his 3 month post cancer check up confirmed he had two tumours in his lungs, following a CT scan this week & results have confirmed the tumour is in both sides of his chest near his heart as well as near the kidney site where his kidney was removed.

To say we are gutted is an understatement. He is being so brave but I am broken inside. They have said it’s curable which is keeping us both going but oh gosh, why my poor son?

Chemo and radiotherapy has been confirmed but surgery is a no go as it’s too close to his heart and main arteries which is too dangerous.

I am also pregnant so it’s bittersweet, I’m carrying a baby I’ve wanted for years after infertility but I’m now going to witness my beautiful son go through harsh treatment to combat the cancer.
Oh my gosh I am so so sorry to read this. I'm sending you all so much love. Not much more that I can say that can make and difference but please know we are thinking of you. If you need to come on here to vent, please do.
Take the time you need to feel tit, get mad, wallow or scream and shout.
Sending strength to your son. He's got this 👏👏
 
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My beautiful son has been diagnosed with Stage 4 Wilms tumour cancer. He is 15 & weeks can’t believe it, he had stage 2 cancer last year & his kidney removed. January his X-ray confirmed tumour had gone & he rang the cancer free bell with pride. Last week his 3 month post cancer check up confirmed he had two tumours in his lungs, following a CT scan this week & results have confirmed the tumour is in both sides of his chest near his heart as well as near the kidney site where his kidney was removed.

To say we are gutted is an understatement. He is being so brave but I am broken inside. They have said it’s curable which is keeping us both going but oh gosh, why my poor son?

Chemo and radiotherapy has been confirmed but surgery is a no go as it’s too close to his heart and main arteries which is too dangerous.

I am also pregnant so it’s bittersweet, I’m carrying a baby I’ve wanted for years after infertility but I’m now going to witness my beautiful son go through harsh treatment to combat the cancer.
I'm so sorry to hear this, we are all here if you need to talk.
 
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My beautiful son has been diagnosed with Stage 4 Wilms tumour cancer. He is 15 & weeks can’t believe it, he had stage 2 cancer last year & his kidney removed. January his X-ray confirmed tumour had gone & he rang the cancer free bell with pride. Last week his 3 month post cancer check up confirmed he had two tumours in his lungs, following a CT scan this week & results have confirmed the tumour is in both sides of his chest near his heart as well as near the kidney site where his kidney was removed.

To say we are gutted is an understatement. He is being so brave but I am broken inside. They have said it’s curable which is keeping us both going but oh gosh, why my poor son?

Chemo and radiotherapy has been confirmed but surgery is a no go as it’s too close to his heart and main arteries which is too dangerous.

I am also pregnant so it’s bittersweet, I’m carrying a baby I’ve wanted for years after infertility but I’m now going to witness my beautiful son go through harsh treatment to combat the cancer.
I’m so very sorry to hear this. It’s just NOT fair. Sending you love and light as you navigate this dreadful time together xxx
 
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My beautiful son has been diagnosed with Stage 4 Wilms tumour cancer. He is 15 & weeks can’t believe it, he had stage 2 cancer last year & his kidney removed. January his X-ray confirmed tumour had gone & he rang the cancer free bell with pride. Last week his 3 month post cancer check up confirmed he had two tumours in his lungs, following a CT scan this week & results have confirmed the tumour is in both sides of his chest near his heart as well as near the kidney site where his kidney was removed.

To say we are gutted is an understatement. He is being so brave but I am broken inside. They have said it’s curable which is keeping us both going but oh gosh, why my poor son?

Chemo and radiotherapy has been confirmed but surgery is a no go as it’s too close to his heart and main arteries which is too dangerous.

I am also pregnant so it’s bittersweet, I’m carrying a baby I’ve wanted for years after infertility but I’m now going to witness my beautiful son go through harsh treatment to combat the cancer.
All I can do is send love. You have been in my thoughts all day xx
 
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