For all the mums fed up of cliques and want to fit in who don't have their own tribe

[Reality_tv_lover]

Hello to any mums who feel down because they haven't found their "tribe" then look no further. Don't fit in? This is for you.
realised its harder work than you imagined then this is for you? Wine mums, chocolate mums, sweary mums all kind of mums are welcome here.

As P!nk said
So raise your glass if you are wrong
In all the right ways
All my underdogs
We will never be never be, anything but loud
And nitty gritty dirty little freaks
Won't you come on and come on and raise your glass

 

[IdeletedbutI'mbackagain]

Yay!! Thanks for sharing!! I'm such a socially awkward person and a natural loner, I feel like I just don't relate at all to a lot of the other mums!! I am always nice etc. but I am super quick when it comes to pick ups and drop offs!!

 

[Reality_tv_lover]

Yay!! Thanks for sharing!! I'm such a socially awkward person and a natural loner, I feel like I just don't relate at all to a lot of the other mums!! I am always nice etc. but I am super quick when it comes to pick ups and drop offs!!

I get ignored now but that could be because I called the homework bollocks on WhatsApp also extremely awkward

 

[welshgirl2021]

Mine are older…past the playground stage.
I don’t profess to know everything/anything but if I can give any advice/ help anyone on this thread I’m here

 

[Reality_tv_lover]

Mine are older…past the playground stage.
I don’t profess to know everything/anything but if I can give any advice/ help anyone on this thread I’m here

Aww, yay, welcome welsh girl

 

[Reality_tv_lover]

I want to ask how everyone is today? All you busy mums. How are you feeling today? What have you been up to?

 

[watermelon sugar]

Oh I love this. Can I join in? I’ve not really felt like an out of the loop Mum until my 3.5 year old joined nursery this year. All the Mums seem to know each other and have a clique. And I’m just stood there awkwardly. My son plays with their kids mind, just barges in but me on the other hand, totally socially awkward

 

[IdeletedbutI'mbackagain]

I want to ask how everyone is today? All you busy mums. How are you feeling today? What have you been up to?

Had a shite day, but it is what it is!! Had childcare arranged for the day so I got to have a glorious 2hr nap!!
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Oh I love this. Can I join in? I’ve not really felt like an out of the loop Mum until my 3.5 year old joined nursery this year. All the Mums seem to know each other and have a clique. And I’m just stood there awkwardly. My son plays with their kids mind, just barges in but me on the other hand, totally socially awkward

Yes, everyone already seems to really know each other!! My oldest is 4 soon, just for context!

 

[watermelon sugar]

Yes, everyone already seems to really know each other!! My oldest is 4 soon, just for context!

They really do!! I was at the gate waiting for it to open at the end of the school day and I was stood next to one Mum, then another Mum stood next to me and they knew eachother, and started talking over me whilst I was just awkwardly stood in the middle

 

[IdeletedbutI'mbackagain]

They really do!! I was at the gate waiting for it to open at the end of the school day and I was stood next to one Mum, then another Mum stood next to me and they knew eachother, and started talking over me whilst I was just awkwardly stood in the middle

Ugh I have been there!! But yet when they actually do turn to talk to me and involve me I feel even more awkward!! I can't make up my mind what I want!

 

[Reality_tv_lover]

Had a shite day, but it is what it is!! Had childcare arranged for the day so I got to have a glorious 2hr nap!!
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Yes, everyone already seems to really know each other!! My oldest is 4 soon, just for context!

this is how i feel at school. They have all got close and I am standing there. They don't even say hello anymore. This morning one of them took great delight asking how many parties we have been to and then saying oh well. So we are excluded form parties. Its like being back at school so feeling a bit rubbish

 

[welshgirl2021]

When my youngest was in primary school (I used to speak to a couple of Mum’s from eldest) the youngest Mum’s were a totally different ball game. One afternoon I went and stood next to a mum that was a friend of someone I knew she turned to me, looked me up and down and said ‘duck off’ I didn’t say a word just walked away. She some weeks later said she has mental health issues, no apology

 

[Reality_tv_lover]

When my youngest was in primary school (I used to speak to a couple of Mum’s from eldest) the youngest Mum’s were a totally different ball game. One afternoon I went and stood next to a mum that was a friend of someone I knew she turned to me, looked me up and down and said ‘duck off’ I didn’t say a word just walked away. She some weeks later said she has mental health issues, no apology

wow. Its like the bitchy school girls become bitchy mums.

 

[welshgirl2021]

wow. Its like the bitchy school girls become bitchy mums.

Exactly! I have lost count of the number of times I’ve walked home from drop off crying took me years to realise none of it really mattered

 

[Reality_tv_lover]

Exactly! I have lost count of the number of times I’ve walked home from drop off crying took me years to realise none of it really mattered

I have cried a few times.

 

[IdeletedbutI'mbackagain]

Aw lads, I'm so sorry 🩷🩷 Christ people can be so tit!!

 

[Reality_tv_lover]

Aw lads, I'm so sorry 🩷🩷 Christ people can be so tit!!

yeah they can. You would think mums would be caring

 

[Reality_tv_lover]

One of my mums has "kindly offered' to get all the teachers xmas gifts everyone send money to her but you know she's only doing it for the praise

 

[welshgirl2021]

One of my mums has "kindly offered' to get all the teachers xmas gifts everyone send money to her but you know she's only doing it for the praise

That drives me mad

 

[Reality_tv_lover]

That drives me mad

You know they are doing it for all the attention then you get the sheep clones
Sent it hun x you are a satr sent the money and it makes me feel sick