I think that’s what makes her so insufferable! She’s so smug and acts like everything is perfect and she’s living her best life but shes actually probably super insecure and in what appears to be a horrible, toxic relationship with someone who treats her like a mug! Why pretend?
I have no idea why but I feel like Diren would the type of man to say ‘I like confident women’ and if she ever said to him she wasn’t happy with things he’d spin it to ‘you’re being insecure and that’s not the kinda girl I want to be with so..’ like make it her problem that she needs to change and get on board with rather than a reflection on him and his behaviour? Like ‘if you want to be with me this is how it is’ kind of a thing? Because there’s no way on earth she doesn’t feel something about being a more or less ‘secret’ girlfriend. Unless it’s an open relationship and she really is that chill then why would she be ok with that? Or what are the benefits for her? Has it been confirmed he’s actually cheated on her or is it speculation based on how he treats her?
I couldn’t be with someone for 3 years and A) not have genuine feelings for them (as in she’s not just in it for the sake of it) and B) know that they’re actively keeping me a secret. There’s a huge difference between keeping things private and keeping things a secret. It’s just really not nice and I don’t know why she puts up with it.
What do her family think I wonder? Or her friends who follow him??
If she’s said she’s not happy about it and he doesn’t change I’d just start posting pics with him from my own account. You can see he’s like a CSI making sure she’s not anywhere on his stories or posts and she every so often has a little glimpse of him so I would put money on it’s him not wanting to show her off rather than a mutual decision not to post one another. I don’t get why though because if he was say ‘embarrassed’ to be with her like mentioned above, he’s more of an idiot because posting her is way less embarrassing than being with her in ‘secret’ (when everyone actually knows and they know we know) and all his best friends and his idol JS know about it so? None of it makes sense to me.