Hi everyone,
I have been with my partner for 3 years now. We met on tinder and he is absolutely perfect. He’s gorgeous and kind and really funny. He was a carer for his mum until the age of 22 and didn’t have much of a life outside of that until we met and all of my friends absolutely love him and in turn have become his friends. When we met he was a virgin and lacked confidence with new people, now I’m happy to say he’s really blossomed and is comfortable within himself and genuinely just hilarious and everyone loves him. However, he has started a job at a big firm recently and it’s very social - they have lots of nights out and he works with gorgeous girls. I trust him 100% but I feel like I’m too boring for him, I have a full time job as a teacher and have the feeling he just isn’t excited by me anymore. Whenever we’re together he spends lots of time on his phone and although he tries to reassure me, I can’t shake this feeling and I don’t really know what to do. I have brought it up but it seems like we just go around in circles.
If anyone has any advice I’d really appreciate it because I’m just lost on what to do.
I have been with my partner for 3 years now. We met on tinder and he is absolutely perfect. He’s gorgeous and kind and really funny. He was a carer for his mum until the age of 22 and didn’t have much of a life outside of that until we met and all of my friends absolutely love him and in turn have become his friends. When we met he was a virgin and lacked confidence with new people, now I’m happy to say he’s really blossomed and is comfortable within himself and genuinely just hilarious and everyone loves him. However, he has started a job at a big firm recently and it’s very social - they have lots of nights out and he works with gorgeous girls. I trust him 100% but I feel like I’m too boring for him, I have a full time job as a teacher and have the feeling he just isn’t excited by me anymore. Whenever we’re together he spends lots of time on his phone and although he tries to reassure me, I can’t shake this feeling and I don’t really know what to do. I have brought it up but it seems like we just go around in circles.
If anyone has any advice I’d really appreciate it because I’m just lost on what to do.