The comments make her feel great, but they aren't being real with her, they're encouraging her to fail, it's sad because she really needs to lose weight, she says she has fibro, my sister has this too, and it can be a viscous circle because you need to excersise to lose weight to take some of the extra strain from your joints but the pain can sometimes stop you, she says she's walking and even running so she obviously isn't at a point where the pain stopping her doing things, so this is the ideal time for her to push through and really take it seriously, but she has all of these people telling her that she'd doing great and she deserves all the cheat days, it's bullshit, and if they feel that they can't be truthful they should just choose not to comment, because they are not doing her any favours