Here's the thing I've walked away from all kinds of situations in my life there isn't a lot that shocks me so for me this tit for tat type of petty argument isn't really anyone besides lydia and Nicky's argument and business both women work albeit Lydia's work isn't as conventional or mainstream in the way most people work but I'm not going to sit here and begrudge her when I wasn't personally in a room with her, I also have kids who have unpredictable behaviours due to their nuerodiversities and I'd hate for someone to redicule them with a harsh brush because they may show a behaviour in future that someone may think is abusive just like lydia.
As I said I don't know neither of them ladies personally like we legit don't know any real big personal things about either of them cause we don't live with them we aren't there to see all trials and tribulations of their personalities so I'm not about to judge and begrudge people I don't know in that way nor will I attake them and make a vandetta out to stop anyone working with them cause it's just not that personal to me. No one murdered one and other and I don't believe in cancel culture it's vindictive behaviour.
I hear what you are saying since none of us were there. I am SURE your children are lovely and are far better lil people than these adult influencers with overinflated egos and agendas behind every move... and you are a great mom.
Josie & Charlie are likely sticking up for Lydia because 1. Lydia lied to them about what happened and 2. we've all seen Charlie and Josie name and shame and try to cancel businesses because of things they felt slighted by such as... late delivery of a pelaton bike during lockdown. A huge company not personally coming to their home to pack up a lamp that Josie wanted to return. I mean who ever thinks a company would pack up a return of a small item?
In my opinion Lydia has to be accountable for her own adult behavior which was throwing an absolute tantrum and emotionally abusing her pregnant hairdresser. Of course if she had apologized for that outburst over several days... over her hair... during a pandemic, I'm sure NONE of this mess would have happened. And pregnancy is a huge component here because I can personally say having lost pregnancies and spent most of my 2 successful pregnancies on bedrest from activity and stress for fear of losing them.... this could have had serious consequences such as loss of the baby or worse.
However, Lydia did not stop there. While Nicky was on maternity she started a group chat with other powerful influencers to try to get Nicky cancelled. AND she slandered Nicky publicly in vlogs for months when really the issue with her hair was self inflicted. Head over to the Lydia wiki and read for yourself. I guess many of us are just really disgusted even more now because on in a vlog on 2/8 Lydia implied that Nicky had abused or done worse to her and gaslit her and then blackmailed her not not say anything. THEN for a MONTH she's carried on as if nothing has happened even when she could have at a minimum cleared up the 2/8 verbiage that alleged something terrible had happened to her. Most of her followers thought she had been raped or attacked and then come to find out she didn't like her hair and that the abuser was in fact Lydia herself... thus lots of new tattlers on that thread.
Anyways, I'm sure your children are lovely and you are a good mom... like all of us who teach our children to apologize after making a mistake. The issue here isn't really the outburst, it's the systematic bullying and emotional abusing that Lydia has been called out for with more than Nicky. She treats a lot of people badly and now Nicky is just trying to clear her name from what I can tell.
If Lydia loses brand deals and income because the companies don't want to deal with her behavior towards others and them then that is on her behavior. If I did anything even close to what Lydia did, I'd be fired for sure and I guarantee you my friends and family would be disappointed with me and want to help me to see how I can be a better person... rather than be complicit in the bullying.
We are all entitled to our own opinions and views... just wanted those on the Josie thread to be caught up on the real issue here since Josie & Charlie have chosen sides and name drop them every chance the get... assuming to show support. This is not so much of a tit for tat petty thing... Lydia did all of this to herself and is just feeling the backlash from her own behavior. Public bullying for 10 months (especially to a hairdresser who has been gravely impacted by lockdown closures... and a single mom providing herself and employees with income) is really not cool and if Lydia won't apologize then she has to deal with the concequences, like any adult.