Fake gf?

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Loulou_23

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Yeh I get all your points it’s weird if he’s made it up and obviously not good if he’s chatting to me the way he was if it’s true.

But saying that I know of his family I know he comes from a good home and I know that he did not cheat in his past relationship. I know that doesn’t make him trust worthy to me but as I said these a lot more to it which I don’t want to discuss incase it outs me. If he was a total stranger from an app I’d have moved on and not given him a second thought but he’s not.

I get peoples point I really do but the turn you don’t know until you are in that situation comes to mind. I know I’ve given advise to friends but can I take it myself…maybe not. I just wanted peoples thoughts on if they have encountered men making up gfs before. The rest of the situation doesn’t matter. If it’s true then I wouldn’t go there regardless if it’s not and I’ll probably never know cos he’d probably just say they broke up.
 
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Loulou_23

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Chels91 said:
Couple of questions,

in what context have use been speaking in the past year ? Just friends …. More than friends, it sounds as if it could have been more with you saying he’s admitting liking you & you seem fairly laid back about him having a GF. Does him not having a girlfriend and speaking to you give you red flag vibes ? Also what has he told you about her ?
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A bit flirty but nothing has happened as I say I don’t want to say too much without outing myself. The ‘girlfriend’ is very recent though like in the past month I believe. From what he’s said it doesn’t sound like he’s happy (she’s an ex, not the same ex that I mentioned in my first post as she’s with someone else now) of course I get red flags from men with girlfriends messaging me, I’ve unknowingly experienced it in the past and cut them straight away! But my gut is telling me she doesn’t exist. Obviously if it’s true I wouldn’t entertain it but I feel like this is a little payback for me ignoring him once before a good 18 months ago.
 
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I wonder if he's gay or asexual, or perhaps a virgin? (And yes, I know you mentioned he had an ex).

He might be too afraid to tell you what's really going on.
 
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Chels91

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Couple of questions,

in what context have use been speaking in the past year ? Just friends …. More than friends, it sounds as if it could have been more with you saying he’s admitting liking you & you seem fairly laid back about him having a GF. Does him not having a girlfriend and speaking to you give you red flag vibes ? Also what has he told you about her ?