I do agree with you however I think its a chicken and egg situation, that the stigma surrounding BF versus bottle feeding exists, so its not like she attributed the negativity to that out of nowhere, it was her response to the perceived failure associated with "admitting defeat" or not doing it correctly or whatever else. Its not like grace created that stigma, she felt it herself and then like you say, perpetuated it. Which says more about society than it does Grace imho. I understand she is an influencer and she chose to accept the praise for doing it, so she should have been more transparent and I absolutely agree with you, and like I said, i was initially under the impression she was honest about the struggle throughout; but i do understand why mothers are reluctant to be open and vulnerable on this particular topic, precisely because there is such a stigma and judgement surrounding how mothers choose to feed their babies, which shouldn't be the case.