My kids are 2 & 4.
Im struggling with them not being babies anymore. Every time someone announces they are pregnant & has a tiny baby I get really envious to the extent that I try to avoid such situations but not to the extent that it’s obvious.
The funny thing is I’m not the perfect parent. While I liked being pregnant I also felt, particularly the second time like it was never ending. I found the lack of sleep earth shattering. Now I lose my temper with my kids a lot, I’m nearly always in stress mode, mainly because of work.
I had my second child during Covid and l struggled a lot. I spent a lot of time in therapy holding my baby. It was mainly work related stress.
My sister was visiting yesterday with her new baby & toddler. I made a big fuss of her kids, got presents, dropped toys over and gave her a ton of baby clothes. She said “oh they’ve gotten so big” about my kids and then pretty much ignored them. It probably sounds daft (I know!) but I felt so sad about it. Like my kids have aged out of being of interest to anyone!
In a rational person, I know I’m lucky. But at the moment emotions are overriding the rational setting in brain!
Im struggling with them not being babies anymore. Every time someone announces they are pregnant & has a tiny baby I get really envious to the extent that I try to avoid such situations but not to the extent that it’s obvious.
The funny thing is I’m not the perfect parent. While I liked being pregnant I also felt, particularly the second time like it was never ending. I found the lack of sleep earth shattering. Now I lose my temper with my kids a lot, I’m nearly always in stress mode, mainly because of work.
I had my second child during Covid and l struggled a lot. I spent a lot of time in therapy holding my baby. It was mainly work related stress.
My sister was visiting yesterday with her new baby & toddler. I made a big fuss of her kids, got presents, dropped toys over and gave her a ton of baby clothes. She said “oh they’ve gotten so big” about my kids and then pretty much ignored them. It probably sounds daft (I know!) but I felt so sad about it. Like my kids have aged out of being of interest to anyone!
In a rational person, I know I’m lucky. But at the moment emotions are overriding the rational setting in brain!