I think the thing that baffles me most is, she’s made a lot of money from the “job” she does. Enough to live on/invest. She could use this absolute heabreaking situation to strip it all back, excuse my langue but duck the farmers market, the outfit of the day, the coffee order. She could use her “fame” and following to really make a difference when it comes to pool and water safety. She could do public speaking, she could travel America, hell she could travel the world telling her story (taking accountability that she did not have a pool fence/adequate safety that lead to the awful, tragic death of her beautiful son). She could stop with the meaningless, superficial crap and she COULD make a difference. Even if she saved one child’s life. She could set up a charity in his name running free swim classes for kids, she could do ANYTHING but the superficial fake bull that she’s doing right now and this is the exact reason I feel little to no sympathy for him or her, only little Trigg. As a mother to a 2.5 year old and a 12 week old, I am sure I would die myself if anything happened to them. They are everything. Just everything and to lose one of them through fault of my own and my Husbands, I’d never know a seconds peace ever again BUT I could try to prevent another family going through the same by using my social media following for awareness.