Emilie Kiser

[kitty_cat123]

The posts I've been seeing
"just holding my child a little bit tighter"how fkn gross are people being making it about them, it's not about anyone but emilie and her family
what is she decides to open tik tok and the first time since her baby passing and the first
video she sees is a mum writing things about triggs death and video or photo Of a child similar to triggs age like how is that helpful it's just constant reminder of what she doesn’t have and what she'll never get back

If she want to support her during this time watch her youtube videos like, comment and share it so can contuine to make money because this is job and right now she can't do that but she still has a family support.

 

[Summer2011]

Nobody other than them & the police know what happened. All the speculation of it was Brady’s fault he wasn’t watching, the pool cover wasn’t put back on. How do we know they weren’t actually using the pool at the time. They can have all the safety precautions but kids drown in pools with their parents right there. In America they average at one child drowning in a pool/pond/body of water, even the bath, a day! both fatal and non fatal, but my point is, it is so quick, we’re taking seconds, seconds of seeing to another child, glancing at your phone, turning on a Light switch, petting a dog. It’s a tragic accident and they have paid the highest price. The media coverage, the tik toks, the comments have been so disrespectful towards her and her family and she doesn’t deserve it just because she makes tik toks. I work a 70 hour week but that doesn’t give my boss the right to 24/7 access to me and the right to know how I choose to parent, or spend my free time.

 

[Wind Fish]

This video popped up, apparently she used tiktok to research a company for a pool net. But was always intending on getting a gate also. Google says in AZ that a gate is required if you have children under 6. A desperately sad situation and I'm not sure how you ever get over that. To me pool nets seem dangerous as they're reliant on you always putting it back and it's time consuming to do properly each time. If you forget to put one part of the net on the peg then the pool is exposed with something easy to get tangled in.

 

[Rippedjeanmaybe]

I have empathy for them, of course I do. What they’re going through is truly horrendous and of course they will feel guilty because all parents do, even when it isn’t their fault.

Nothing that can be said now will change what has happened for them but at least it will make other parents think more about pool safety.

A lot of the Florida pools have fences around them and usually if you’re walking away from the pool you’d remove your child, shut the gate and then go back in. Far quicker and easier than a net.

Obviously we don’t know the full facts and drownings can happen no matter what precautions are taken but ultimately a pool fence might have changed things and that’s something other parents now need to be aware of now.

I’ve seen an uprise in parents not having safety gates on stairs because “they don't fit the aesthetic”, they think they will be able to monitor them all the time and nothing bad will happen, but it only takes a split second for them to be distracted and the child is falling down the stairs…

Also the constant reins shaming I see “they’re not a dog, why are they on a lead”… because some children bolt. You can have hold of their hand one minute and the next they’re in the road.

Accidents will still always happen of course but the more precautions are taken the less likely it is to happen.

 

[Yesweknowyouhavekids]

Nobody deserves to hear awful comments when such a terrible tragedy happens but this is the awful side of being a social media celebrity and involving everyone in every aspect of your kids life when the going is good. It shouldn’t be allowed that kids private information is so easily accesible to total strangers around the world who in this case were able to piece together the information about his death in the first place. Absolutely zero privacy or dignity because every private element of their lives are shared with the public

 

[Instafamousssss]

Even if they had a pool fence, it isn’t completely avoidable and there are things that can go wrong with them. She had a cover, netting, Trigg had swim lessons. What if she had a fence and left the door open by accident, like they accidentally left the netting off or accidentally took their eyes off him for a minute. Don’t think you’re immune from tragedy just because you think you have everything in place is what I’m saying. It could happen to anyone… the fact people feel the need to pour salt into their wounds is beyond me. Weirdos.

 

[whoareyouu]

Even if they had a pool fence, it isn’t completely avoidable and there are things that can go wrong with them. She had a cover, netting, Trigg had swim lessons. What if she had a fence and left the door open by accident, like they accidentally left the netting off or accidentally took their eyes off him for a minute. Don’t think you’re immune from tragedy just because you think you have everything in place is what I’m saying. It could happen to anyone… the fact people feel the need to pour salt into their wounds is beyond me. Weirdos.

Having to live with this for the rest of their lives is enough. Regardless of if there’s blame to be placed anywhere. Plus, no one actually knows what’s gone on.

 

[Scorpihoe]

What if they had a pool gate and he got a chair and climbed over it? What if he unlocked it? What if their pool gate was arriving tomorrow?
What if their alarm malfunctioned and didn’t work? Or their net came loose?

This is a tragedy and saying “if only they had a pool gate” isn’t going to bring Trigg back, let her grieve and hopefully a positive that comes from this is that many more parents will take precautions around pools now.

 

[Former_Antelopee]

Nobody other than them & the police know what happened. All the speculation of it was Brady’s fault he wasn’t watching, the pool cover wasn’t put back on. How do we know they weren’t actually using the pool at the time. They can have all the safety precautions but kids drown in pools with their parents right there. In America they average at one child drowning in a pool/pond/body of water, even the bath, a day! both fatal and non fatal, but my point is, it is so quick, we’re taking seconds, seconds of seeing to another child, glancing at your phone, turning on a Light switch, petting a dog. It’s a tragic accident and they have paid the highest price. The media coverage, the tik toks, the comments have been so disrespectful towards her and her family and she doesn’t deserve it just because she makes tik toks. I work a 70 hour week but that doesn’t give my boss the right to 24/7 access to me and the right to know how I choose to parent, or spend my free time.

Pretty sure it was said the authorities pulled him out of the pool so surely if they were using the pool and the parent(s) were there they would have got him out not waited for the authorities?

 

[Yesweknowyouhavekids]

If you know you have a pool or another massive cause of child death in your home you never ‘take your eyes off them for a second’ or all the other things people are saying about. You literally cannot afford to. You need to make double triple sure if one precaution fails I.e you turn your back /get distracted that there is another fail safe in place (locked gate)
It’s no different to those who own xl bullies in my view. Everyone knows the massive risk to your child’s life.
Saying that I don’t agree with anyone posting on their social media saying this- nobody should be posting anything on there not even saying they are sorry as parents haven’t made any sort of announcement

 

[Rippedjeanmaybe]

No one is saying that they’re immune from tragedy. The point is, they didn’t have a pool fence.

Of course you can take all the precautions and things can still go wrong, that’s obvious but the point is you at least take those precautions to minimise the chance of those things going wrong. It’s about risk reduction.

You secure furniture to the walls to hopefully stop them falling and crushing a child, you put up blind cord ties to hopefully stop them being strangled, you put up stair gates to hopefully stop them from falling down the stairs but obviously all of these don’t minimise the risk completely. The point is, you try to minimise the risks.

 

[Beckz1205]

I’ve just seen a video where Emilie says that Brady is at the other house as the pool fence is getting installed that day, but it’s clear to see on videos that there is no fence around the pool. They had a net/cover on the pool so who knows what happened with the fence or decisions as to why there wasn’t one there. We don’t know what happened that night either.

 

[chazzlechuzzle]

This is so tragic. I hadn't heard about her either until seeing this story in the main news. Just can't comprehend how horrific this is and made worse by the fact that is was avoidable. From everything I've gathered, the situation was that Brady was alone at the house with Trigg and Teddy - Emilie was out. Brady was watching a basketball game on TV when Trigg snuck out of the house - the pool had not been covered by the net, which was Brady's responsibility but had been neglected on other occasions (as seen in several early morning vlogs were they had just woken up and shown the pool still uncovered with stuff in it from the night before).
There are strict regulations in their district regarding pool safety requirements - none adhered to and enough evidence points towards the fact that Emilie had repeatedly blocked/deleted comments talking about pool safety. The net (even if it was properly used) was not enough to meet the legal requirement in their area.

Regardless of all of that info - all I can say is poor family and that gorgeous boy was a bright light. What an unthinkable tragedy.

 

[Lmg1111]

I wonder was someone in the pool with but did he hit his head perhaps ? Hate to think that he fell in on his own

 

[mineminemine]

I think it should be a lesson for others but I don’t think comments should be sent to her at this point.
I often get told by my other half that I’m too anxious when it comes to accidents but I just never want to be that person who wishes they could turn back time and right now Emilie will be and telling her should she have had fence fixes nothing. The tragedy should be enough for others to ensure they have a fence around their pools without shaming the parents

 

[chloej123]

My heart really aches for her, as a mum I can’t even begin to imagine the pain she is feeling or wonder how she would even breath again

 

[ThickEar]

I wonder was someone in the pool with but did he hit his head perhaps ? Hate to think that he fell in on his own

I wonder this too. Children can drown in seconds, especially if lying at the bottom of a pool with a head injury - happened to a kid in my town when I was young.
I don’t know where the ‘dad watching basketball while mum is out’ story has come from. How could anyone know that? I doubt either parent has spoken to anyone outside of a very close circle about the circumstances.

It’s absolutely heartbreaking, and I am sure they will both be tortured about the what ifs for the rest of their lives. It is obvious both children are so loved.

i agree with previous poster (yesweknowyouhavekids) though. Lives lived online are, by definition, a public freeforall, in good and bad times. Some public build you up. Some enjoy the schadenfreude when you are down. I post nothing on SM. If - god forbid - one of my kids drowned in my pool nobody outside my circle would give a tidy s**t and I wouldn’t have the added agony of being judged by the internet. I think influencers are very naive to this fact when the going is good.

 

[kitty_cat123]

honestly the internet rumours are wild! The news hasn't released any details other than services
responded to call and they performed cpr and he was taken hospital, then airlifted to a bigger hospital was in critical condition for 6 days before passing..

no where does it say who was at home was meant to be looking after the kids, how how got out etc like we don't actually know any of that so wild people saying it's brady fault one person said that now everyone is running with that storyline

 

[ahtisyourself]

There is someone spamming any comments section on TikTok about it saying the same thing over and over about the husband being home and Emilie being out with friends, saying it’s all in the police report but when challenged on where to find these details in the report they don’t respond. There are a lot of weird people out there who seem to be getting off on making this tragedy even more soul destroying for the family

 

[Lmg1111]

honestly the internet rumours are wild! The news hasn't released any details other than services
responded to call and they performed cpr and he was taken hospital, then airlifted to a bigger hospital was in critical condition for 6 days before passing..

no where does it say who was at home was meant to be looking after the kids, how how got out etc like we don't actually know any of that so wild people saying it's brady fault one person said that now everyone is running with that storyline

I’m so worried about them for this reason. Unfortunately many parents cannot cope with the pain, understandably. I really hope they have good people around them reminding them they are amazing parents and this was a freak accident - they can’t leave teddy he needs them.
I very much doubt they have been able to go back home, I was thinking about these things last night. It’s just horrendous. Rest in peace baby boy x

I can't see her coming back to social media all that materialistic stuff will seem pointless