I guess what she’s trying to say on one hand is “yes my child died and it was awful but I have another son to care for and it’s not fair to him to not give him a happy life because his brother died”. And arguably Teddy deserves a happy mum and dad. I get that. In their mind, they probably thought them being on holiday and having fun on his anniversary of death was them “celebrating his life” or something.
But equally, it seems so strange to be so factual and business like only a year after Trigg’s death. If they’re going to carry on like this they need to completely come off social media. There’s no right way or text book way to grieve, and whilst they’re not necessarily doing anything “wrong”, it just comes across so strangely to people who are on the outside.