Guys, you're all sensible, clever, well-meaning ladies but I'm afraid your wise words are lost on Miss Elle Florence Lecocq. Why? Because she's a woman-child, a 31-year old who deletes ANY negative comments. She will delete a comment where you criticise her hairstyle/trousers/handbag (she will block you too), do you think she has enough maturity to even mentally process all the stuff you wrote here? I do not think so. It would require her to step back and do some introspection. Appreciate she's not Miss America and the smartest chick out there. But it's beyond her and without professional therapy will always be. She has so many problems that I don't even know where to start:
- shopaholism,
- the inability to be happy in her own company hence the endless relationship search,
- a defensive attitude whenever she's subject of criticism,
- an entitled approach to life which makes her impossible to be around,
- a conviction that she knows best,
- 'pride' that makes it impossible for her to admit she messed up, failed, disappointed herself and others,
- a fixation on being married: she fails to recognize people marry for that they want to be with the other person, not for the title of Mrs and the potential leeching off one's spouse.
These are just some examples of what's wrong with her. Someone else mentioned how she never talked about missing her exes and being devastated about losing the person she loved. I'm starting to think she never actually loves anyone (apart from herself). She may FALL IN LOVE with the guys and be enamoured but was there ever a lasting emotion? Because if there was, I find it impossible to understand how she could start dating 2-3 months after breakups.