YouCanCoco
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Hi, have read along since Elle became pregnant, and her posts, videos about her ‘journey’ to conceive and absolute disregard of woman who have struggled with infertility and loss, posting heartbeat videos without a warning etc. At the time she did this I was very affected.. I was angry and very distraught. I unfollowed her and let it pass. But I just had a look at her insta and saw the story about not sending her pics etc of her mum as it can be shocking to see them and she can’t control her grief! Oh Elle that’s exactly how I felt hearing you boast about getting pregnant after 1 month and blasting scan pics and videos without warning. Making every vlog about pregnancy. I personally tried for 15 years, had 10 IVF and 8 miscarriages including a late loss. PTSD has blighted me since and in a few posts she undid years of therapy! I was surprised how much I was triggered by her, but her ignorance and smugness just got to me. I don’t feel jealous of other woman who can have children, just something snapped with her! So I messaged her and told her to start practicing what she preaches and think of woman who sadly don’t ever get the happy ending and just be mindful and kind to others for once. Lol rant over!