I haven’t seen the stretch marks thing but I’ve found her photos of post partum very uncomfortable. Almost like she has a point to prove. She seems so insecure. She’s just had a baby for crying out loud, who cares what she looks like at week 1,2 or 4 post partum. She even posted the other day how her c section scar was still too sore for her to consider working out. What’s the rush? Enjoy the baby and the cuddles, it’s over so fast and I never paid attention to my body as it just wasn’t important. It’s taken 9 months of changes, the most incredible journey and then actually having your baby and watching them grow and change was so much more important to me then what I looked like.
It took me 6 months to feel normal after my birth and it made me realise this ridiculous pressure for women to snap back is so unrealistic and damaging. What a shallow life to only care about the way she looks or what designer she’s wearing, her son will love her for her. I’ve hardly worn make up for the past year due to lockdown and staying at home, and while I feel like an ugly foot most of the time, my daughter and husband love me for me not the me in layers of make up