Eimear Varian Barry

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She is crazy . He’s been speaking to my friend since March. He doesn’t want to be away from his children apparently also she can’t buy him out . He’s told her stuff about about eimear . She is not a nice person . He’s really upset my friend .
 
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Well if the kids and Daniel are back at least we'll be spared the constant soft porn shoots with her new bleeping tripod. That's all she does all day long, film herself with tits and belly hanging out.

She needs engagement now more than ever seeing as she's signed up with a model agency. Sure they'll be watching her engagement closely to see what jobs she can pick up.
 
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Well if the kids and Daniel are back at least we'll be spared the constant soft porn shoots with her new bleeping tripod. That's all she does all day long, film herself with tits and belly hanging out.

She needs engagement now more than ever seeing as she's signed up with a model agency. Sure they'll be watching her engagement closely to see what jobs she can pick up.
That’s true although as soon as she can she will kick him out again . Then it will be back to the swim suite pictures and drunk live chats
 
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She is crazy . He’s been speaking to my friend since March. He doesn’t want to be away from his children apparently also she can’t buy him out . He’s told her stuff about about eimear . She is not a nice person . He’s really upset my friend .
I often wonder what he is like though. Is he in any way complicit in the constant breaking up and getting back together? If he doesn’t want to be away from his children, it doesn’t mean he has to be in Eimear’s bed.
Your poor friend. What does she make of the whole thing?
 
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She’s really upset because she said he’s a nice guy . I just think if Evb could afford to buy him out she wouldn’t have entertained having him back . If I could get down to see her I would . She’s such a nice girl and would treat him so well .
 
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She’s really upset because she said he’s a nice guy . I just think if Evb could afford to buy him out she wouldn’t have entertained having him back . If I could get down to see her I would . She’s such a nice girl and would treat him so well .
No doubt he will be gone again in a few weeks/months.
 
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Said it once and say it a million more times, especially after yesterday. EVB has definitely got histrionic personality disorder. She literally has every single characteristic.

-Constantly seeking attention
-Excessively emotional, dramatic or sexually provocative to gain attention
-Speaks dramatically with strong opinions, but few facts or details to back them up
-Easily influenced by others
-Shallow, rapidly changing emotions
-Excessive concern with physical appearance
-Thinks relationships with others are closer than they really are

She would be categorised as a Cluster B personality disorder as she aslo has some traits from Borderline Personaliy Disorder

-impulsive,
-Unstable or fragile self-image
-Unstable and intense relationships
-Up and down moods, often as a reaction to interpersonal stress
-chameleon effect (changing to your surroundings to fit in

and Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

-Belief that you're special and more important than others
-Fantasies about power, success and attractiveness
-Exaggeration of achievements or talents
-Expectation of constant praise and admiration
-Arrogance
-Unreasonable expectations of favors and advantages, often taking advantage of others
-Envy of others or belief that others envy you

She needs to get into a DBT course ASAP and sort herself out!
Please say that others agree with above?!
 
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Said it once and say it a million more times, especially after yesterday. EVB has definitely got histrionic personality disorder. She literally has every single characteristic.

-Constantly seeking attention
-Excessively emotional, dramatic or sexually provocative to gain attention
-Speaks dramatically with strong opinions, but few facts or details to back them up
-Easily influenced by others
-Shallow, rapidly changing emotions
-Excessive concern with physical appearance
-Thinks relationships with others are closer than they really are

She would be categorised as a Cluster B personality disorder as she aslo has some traits from Borderline Personaliy Disorder

-impulsive,
-Unstable or fragile self-image
-Unstable and intense relationships
-Up and down moods, often as a reaction to interpersonal stress
-chameleon effect (changing to your surroundings to fit in

and Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

-Belief that you're special and more important than others
-Fantasies about power, success and attractiveness
-Exaggeration of achievements or talents
-Expectation of constant praise and admiration
-Arrogance
-Unreasonable expectations of favors and advantages, often taking advantage of others
-Envy of others or belief that others envy you

She needs to get into a DBT course ASAP and sort herself out!
Please say that others agree with above?!
I'm not really into diagnosing someone online... it's dangerous.

But I can see maybe she's trying to engage more cause her SocialBlade insights show she has consistently lost followers since April...
 
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I'm not really into diagnosing someone online... it's dangerous.

But I can see maybe she's trying to engage more cause her SocialBlade insights show she has consistently lost followers since April...
I fully agree about not diagnosing someone online. Even if you were an experienced mental health professional, you would need a long history of someone’s life to come to a serious conclusion like that. It’s a dangerous territory to enter into.
 
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I fully agree about not diagnosing someone online. Even if you were an experienced mental health professional, you would need a long history of someone’s life to come to a serious conclusion like that. It’s a dangerous territory to enter into.

Actually as an experienced mental health professional, for the above diagnosis you don't need a history of the person, such as family history etc, it's not needed. It is literally if you have a certain amount of the traits, it's deemed that you have it. (obviously slightly more in depth questions asked to get the conclusion) after diagnosis they then place you onto a DBT or CBT course depending on which they think would help you more. (well, in Ireland anyways)
These aren't mental illnesses, they are personality disorders. These literally are used to describe a certain type of behaviours that are usually found in clusters in people.
EVB, from my experience in many community based work and on the wards, has got a personality disorder. They are not curable, but can learn to deal with their traits more appropriately. If she were to do a DBT/CBT it would benefit her hugely.
It's not dangerous to suggest that she has personality disorder from a professional point of view, but we know she sees these posts, and one can hope she might see a little of herself in the above and seek help. 😌
 
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No doubt he will be gone again in a few weeks/months.
Yep once she is able to work she’s gonna be back to leaving him at home with the kids . I feel sorry for they guy . She’s using him and to a point using the kids .
 
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Actually as an experienced mental health professional, for the above diagnosis you don't need a history of the person, such as family history etc, it's not needed. It is literally if you have a certain amount of the traits, it's deemed that you have it. (obviously slightly more in depth questions asked to get the conclusion) after diagnosis they then place you onto a DBT or CBT course depending on which they think would help you more. (well, in Ireland anyways)
These aren't mental illnesses, they are personality disorders. These literally are used to describe a certain type of behaviours that are usually found in clusters in people.
EVB, from my experience in many community based work and on the wards, has got a personality disorder. They are not curable, but can learn to deal with their traits more appropriately. If she were to do a DBT/CBT it would benefit her hugely.
It's not dangerous to suggest that she has personality disorder from a professional point of view, but we know she sees these posts, and one can hope she might see a little of herself in the above and seek help. 😌
My point was that I personally am not a MH professional. Therefore, I don’t want to hold myself out as having the information and knowledge to make that assumption about her.
 
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It must be so confusing for the kids to be constantly in and out like that
 
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It must be so confusing for the kids to be constantly in and out like that
I just don’t know how either of them can think this is acceptable for their children. How many times have they broken up and got back together this year alone. Utterly ridiculous out of them both!
 
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