Yeah I completely agree. It’s hard because like I say I’ve been behind her in Zara and witnessed first hand her being rude to the staff and we have mutual friends that have said she’s “ruthless” but in saying that I guess that doesn’t change how you would feel if you knew people that don’t even know you were running you down on the internet! But then would that not make you a bit kinder and more self aware. Maybe that’s part of the new SM overhaul with the oversharing etc
She does always seem pleasant on her stories and whenever I’ve messaged she has always politely replied. Her children always seem so well behaved and impeccably turned out. Especially in comparison to Hattie’s children in that group that seem to run riot. I’m not for a minute judging as my children are feral little beasts that I cannot control 
I feel bad if it’s making her feel bad but like you say I guess you have to have a thick skin to have an open account or accept that people are going to talk!
I feel bad if it’s making her feel bad but like you say I guess you have to have a thick skin to have an open account or accept that people are going to talk!