Ineedmorecoffee
Chatty Member
@rainbowlemon has said lots of great stuff, brilliant advice.
For me, no, I don’t want to rip his clothes off every time he walks in the room. That’s lust, and while it’s fantastic, it’s not a permanent state of being. Some nights he walks in the door, starts rambling on about work and I think I really can’t be arsed with this. Some days he drives me nuts with his terrible sense of humour. Sometimes his opinions wind me up.
But I love that feeling of knowing he’s mine and he adores me as much as I do him. We laugh together. He gets me. We’ve thankfully not had too much in the way of bad times, but when we have I always think I’m glad I’m facing this with you. There’s no one else I’d want by my side in life.
I agree with you, things do become boring and mundane. But life’s what you make it. If you want a life with him, it takes effort and doesn’t just happen. Are you just drifting along, or do you genuinely want to be with him?
For me, no, I don’t want to rip his clothes off every time he walks in the room. That’s lust, and while it’s fantastic, it’s not a permanent state of being. Some nights he walks in the door, starts rambling on about work and I think I really can’t be arsed with this. Some days he drives me nuts with his terrible sense of humour. Sometimes his opinions wind me up.
But I love that feeling of knowing he’s mine and he adores me as much as I do him. We laugh together. He gets me. We’ve thankfully not had too much in the way of bad times, but when we have I always think I’m glad I’m facing this with you. There’s no one else I’d want by my side in life.
I agree with you, things do become boring and mundane. But life’s what you make it. If you want a life with him, it takes effort and doesn’t just happen. Are you just drifting along, or do you genuinely want to be with him?