Aww this is so lovely! It’s very hard read signs while in lockdown and I think because I’ve nothing else on it’s all I’m thinking about and over analysing. I hope you find out more as well! And as you say even it turns out we make good friends out of this it’s a bonus. Especially when life is so bizarre right nowExactly. It's no different from him meeting you in person at work by the photocopier and asking you out lol. He's seen you on zoom, had a look at your WhatsApp pic and started chatting. How else we meant to date in lockdown?! I say meet him for an outdoor walk and keep us all updated lol. Start making the chat a slightly bit more flirty and meet up. Fuck it. We only live once lol. Is he attractive?
YoloBless you I think he’s definitely into you! I’m currently speaking to a girl (I’m bi) and I’m not sure whether she’s just being nice or not but my friends are like hun she’s clearly wanting to speak to you a lot and asks about my interests...I think either way you will end up good friends and that’s just as amazing (especially in lockdown, when we are missing social interaction)
Thank youI must be the only one to think this but if he's seen you on a Zoom and messaged you privately he obviously is attracted to you. If he's being friendly, ask if he wants to meet up when lockdown is over, what have you got to lose?
Aw if he’s taking time out his day to message you/check in on you etc then I’d say he’s keen? I mean of course you never know how things will work out, in person it might be completely different but you have to start somewhere and I’d say getting along well and him wanting to talk to you a lot is a good sign? Perhaps at first he just wanted to make you feel welcome as he can’t do it in the work place like he normally would but obviously he’s enjoyed speaking with you, perhaps fancies you too so thought he’s try his luck! But then I’m someone who’s quite stupid and naive when it comes to men and relationships
Oh give over!!!!! I’m just speaking from years of experience of seeing how guys like this operate. Ordinarily she would be able to gauge what he’s like from seeing him at work in a normal environment and would get a general idea of what he’s like from speaking to the other people that work there.Exactly negative Nellys on this thread u meet him u dont like him that's itjeeez
It's very mumsnet turning him into a creep the mans not even being flirty
Rock climbing is good fun and an opportunity for him to check you out - especially your bum! Haha.
Keep going as you are, sounds fun, bit try not to much pressure on it. I agree I suspect he must be physically attracted to you to PM you. Do you follow him on socials?
Hmmm. Yeah, its really unusual now for some this kinda age to not have any social media. I hate that its even a thing, but it is. Potential drama with the kids mum.I love thisHe doesn’t have socials! Which instantly makes me suspicious but he said he just doesn’t like Facebook and Instagram etc.
Oooh it's annoying when they don't have socials so you can't have a wee look. How about snapchat and then you can see if he gas a dead high score lol or us it just me who is a psycho haha.
Hmmm not everyone does. I’ve recently deleted fb and I know quite a few people who don’t have it.Definite red flag for me. Especially as he has kids. Still with the mum of the kids? Some drama there? Its so unusual to not be on SM at 30.
I personally think it says a lot of good things about a person if they’re not on SM. Basically they don’t care what anyone else thinks about them & they don’t feel the need to share their life/thoughts with the rest of the world - essentially that’s all SM is really isn’t it? People just blowing their own trumpets or snooping on other peopleDefinite red flag for me. Especially as he has kids. Still with the mum of the kids? Some drama there? Its so unusual to not be on SM at 30.
Nooooo my boyfriend doesnt have any either he hates it. And I love that he doesnt embrace itHmmm. Yeah, its really unusual now for some this kinda age to not have any social media. I hate that its even a thing, but it is. Potential drama with the kids mum.
I don't have socials. Got rid of it all 4 years ago and don't miss any of it. Doesn't mean I'm weird just got fed up of all the crap people post!Definite red flag for me. Especially as he has kids. Still with the mum of the kids? Some drama there? Its so unusual to not be on SM at 30.
Hmm not sure if I would say red flag, but is unusual.Definite red flag for me. Especially as he has kids. Still with the mum of the kids? Some drama there? Its so unusual to not be on SM at 30.
Oh 100%, social media is our downfall. Its addictive and giving us all headfuck! Ive just heard too many girls tell me theyve found out the guy was dodgy in these casesI personally think it says a lot of good things about a person if they’re not on SM. Basically they don’t care what anyone else thinks about them & they don’t feel the need to share their life/thoughts with the rest of the world - essentially that’s all SM is really isn’t it? People just blowing their own trumpets or snooping on other people
Not weird at all, but it is unusual.I don't have socials. Got rid of it all 4 years ago and don't miss any of it. Doesn't mean I'm weird just got fed up of all the crap people post!
I think it's lovely. Its not like you are going to meet him in the dark or anything! As long as you are just chatting, nothing gets inappropriate or makes you uncomfortable then there is no problem. It's just a friendship at the minute, yes only by message but with lock down and people suffering with mental health and loneliness ect we Should be encouraging people to talk. If he is making you smile then that's a good thing and good luck!!! Hopefully it ends up as something more. If he ends up a creep well fair enough but we can't vilify the poor man just for being friendly
I’m just speaking from experience of seeing shit like this play out before. He’s saying he’s not got any social media profiles, they only communicate via written messages, he’s contacted her off the back of work related comms, wait for it - if she asks for a video chat il bet he won’t be able to because “his camera doesn’t work on his phone” or there will be another excuse....I don't have socials. Got rid of it all 4 years ago and don't miss any of it. Doesn't mean I'm weird just got fed up of all the crap people post!
I think it's lovely. Its not like you are going to meet him in the dark or anything! As long as you are just chatting, nothing gets inappropriate or makes you uncomfortable then there is no problem. It's just a friendship at the minute, yes only by message but with lock down and people suffering with mental health and loneliness ect we Should be encouraging people to talk. If he is making you smile then that's a good thing and good luck!!! Hopefully it ends up as something more. If he ends up a creep well fair enough but we can't vilify the poor man just for being friendly
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