How did he know you'd blocked him so quickly?
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I would imagine because she used to be at his beckoned call and reply instantly, without a response he probably started worrying she would blab.
Well done OP. Stay strong and we are all here x
When you return home OP if he's around, just say you don't want to talk and go in your home. If he keeps ringing the bell, tell him to go away or else you will call the Police and get him done for harassment/stalking. He'll be scared you'll go to his girlfriend thats what it is. He doesnt give a tit about you. You have totally dont the right thing, I feel so cross that hes manipulated you like this what a bleep.
I think if you block a number the caller then just gets a dead line as well? That may be totally wrong though!
She blocked him this morning I think?
What the OP reads like: A knight in shining armour swooped in to save you from a toxic relationship...
Translation: This narcissistic ventriloquist saw a woman at her most vulnerable and decided to keep her as his little plaything.
I've had a skim of other comments here so don't need to reiterate the consensus. But I will say this, as I've been the girlfriend, this guy doesn't care about you. He never did. Nor does he really care for his girlfriend. He cares for himself and himself only. You're in your mid 30's in another 12 you'll be heading to 50 years of age. 50 and still someone's ragdoll. You're wasting your life on something and someone that, if push came to shove, wouldn't waste 50 minutes on you.
Move on. Work on yourself, get some professional help if need be for your self esteem and past experiences because that's the deep down root cause of this. And maybe just maybe have some compassion for the woman you are hurting because it damn well bleeping crushes you.
ETA: I see you've decided to end things good for you! The first step is the hardest but pursue this path to self love, self development and self appreciation.because you can do it if you really want to. There's an amazing unattached man out there who will treat and respect you how you should be and vice versa. But as you know it begins with you first. I wish you all the best. x
Translation: This narcissistic ventriloquist saw a woman at her most vulnerable and decided to keep her as his little plaything.
I've had a skim of other comments here so don't need to reiterate the consensus. But I will say this, as I've been the girlfriend, this guy doesn't care about you. He never did. Nor does he really care for his girlfriend. He cares for himself and himself only. You're in your mid 30's in another 12 you'll be heading to 50 years of age. 50 and still someone's ragdoll. You're wasting your life on something and someone that, if push came to shove, wouldn't waste 50 minutes on you.
Move on. Work on yourself, get some professional help if need be for your self esteem and past experiences because that's the deep down root cause of this. And maybe just maybe have some compassion for the woman you are hurting because it damn well bleeping crushes you.
ETA: I see you've decided to end things good for you! The first step is the hardest but pursue this path to self love, self development and self appreciation.because you can do it if you really want to. There's an amazing unattached man out there who will treat and respect you how you should be and vice versa. But as you know it begins with you first. I wish you all the best. x
Also if you block someone on your phone their photo disappears on what’s app too, maybe he noticed that too x
this! he's acting like this : "But Muh TOy" *stomping feet* *tanthrum*
So proud of you, OP. While you're hurt now, I guarantee at some point you will feel nothing but derision towards him. Keep strong x
I notice how in his reply hes saying he loves you but he hasn’t said he will leave his girlfriend and finally be with you properly 
he’s a liar, he just wants his bag on the side to remain available, if you were truly the love of his life his reply would be that he is telling the girlfriend everything tonight so you’s can be together, please don’t waste another minute on this piece of tit OP
he’s a liar, he just wants his bag on the side to remain available, if you were truly the love of his life his reply would be that he is telling the girlfriend everything tonight so you’s can be together, please don’t waste another minute on this piece of tit OPAh yes. For some reason I was thinking they didn't speak much. But just realised it was that she didn't see him so much now.
The next few weeks and months will be hard. You’ll have moments when you feel like cracking and contact him. Please don’t though.
I wasted 5 years on a similar situation, but I got my own happy ending, I did meet a nice guy and I look back now and cringe at how I allowed myself to be emotionally played with.
Spend time on yourself, your child and focus on the future you both deserve.
I promise you’ll look back in time and realise how far you’ve come and how much happier you are.
I wasted 5 years on a similar situation, but I got my own happy ending, I did meet a nice guy and I look back now and cringe at how I allowed myself to be emotionally played with.
Spend time on yourself, your child and focus on the future you both deserve.
I promise you’ll look back in time and realise how far you’ve come and how much happier you are.
Hope you are ok. I’m shocked he’s turned up. How far away does he live?? Keep strong you will get through itThank you. I feel heart broken but I know this is for the best. I'm going to miss him so much, I can't even lie about that but I know deep down that this entire situation is wrong & even in his reply, he makes it all about him. I wouldn't have had the courage to do this had it not been for the amount of replies I've had and even though some were hard to hear, I'm glad people didn't sugar-coat anything, I needed to hear it all
The only person I feel sorry for here is that poor poor woman who has been cheated on, lied to and manipulated - his innocent GF, how awful to knowingly Betray another woman for so long!! She really needs to know the truth about this man and who he really is before she may have children with him, I can imagine everyone here would want to know the truth about their partner.
He lives about 20 minutes away in the car. I've tried to end things before but have never blocked him so I've always been sucked back in but this time will definitely be different. I'm hurting because even though he wasn't a relationship, I've spent 12 years of my life with him in it. But I will stay strong & if I do start to waiver at any point, I'll be reading everyone's comments again. I'm home now and he's left. He did put a note through my door though. X
She's the only person to feel sorry for because I definitely don't deserve it, I am under no illusion that what I've done is wrong. I should have ended things a long time ago, when he met her.
We spoke every day. We didn't see each other that often because I work extremely long hours and also have the responsibility of my child.
Bin the note. Do not keep it and read it again.
You didn’t see each other that often because he has another life with another woman. You have to stop making excuses and justifications now.
I can’t really add anything of value that hasn’t already been said but I just wanted to say you are doing the right thing. Eventually you will look back at this relationship with contempt and kick yourself for wasting so much time on it.
If I was his girlfriend, I’d really rather know now what has been going on, before she ends up pregnant and/or married to this man. Once the dust settles, write her a letter or email just laying down the facts, with proof if possible.
What a vile man he is. I feel for you because your self esteem must be on the floor, it seems to me that he’s the sort of man who has slowly chipped away at you for a long time.
I feel sorry for his girlfriend too. As a wife, at home with a few children, it would completely devastate me if this happened. I spend a fair amount of time worrying about this happening to me. That poor woman
Please at least equip her with your truth so she can make an informed choice.
Sending you a hug
If I was his girlfriend, I’d really rather know now what has been going on, before she ends up pregnant and/or married to this man. Once the dust settles, write her a letter or email just laying down the facts, with proof if possible.
What a vile man he is. I feel for you because your self esteem must be on the floor, it seems to me that he’s the sort of man who has slowly chipped away at you for a long time.
I feel sorry for his girlfriend too. As a wife, at home with a few children, it would completely devastate me if this happened. I spend a fair amount of time worrying about this happening to me. That poor woman
Please at least equip her with your truth so she can make an informed choice.Sending you a hug