(long rant alert) New poster here from the States. I've been watching Victoria's videos for a couple years now. When I saw the separation announcement video, I just had to find a site that was talking about it.
Ian was positively beaming in that separation video. He was so nonchalant and matter-of-fact. You could tell he is more than fine with his decision. The time where he popped his head in on that one live stream and asked her if she had told them yet and she said no. He was eager to get the information out then. She wasn't and didn't say anything. Clearly it was too emotional for her to talk about. Ian was like whatever, let's get on with it.
I wonder if Ian hasn't regretted marrying her for the past few years. He was always out every weekend doing his own thing, leaving her home alone to sit in her chair playing with her planners and, more recently, Animal Crossing. I always found that very curious relationship situation.
The last year or so I could tell Ian was fed up with her TM excuses too. Whenever she would throw that as an excuse as to why she couldn't/didn't do something, he was always quick to jump in to call her out on it. The days of him letting that slide we're over.
Speaking of TM excuses, I was astounded to see Becky literally on her hands and knees scrubbing Victoria's bathroom floor with a toothbrush while Victoria stood there and filmed. That told me all I need to know about Victoria. She has no shame and she not a genuine person. I would have to be paralyzed before I let a friend clean my bathroom while I just stood there and watched. Seriously, who does that?
And I noticed how fast she was back to driving all of a sudden when she had to. Whereas before she said it was TM that prevented her from driving. How convenient that her TM cleared up enough for her to drive again just in the nick of time when Chauffeur Ian left her.
I don't begrudge Ian for turning to virtual reality games. I mean we all saw his reality. You'd try to escape to some fantasy world too if you were married to a lazy, Disney obsessed woman who did absolutely nothing else productive but put stickers in a planner. Even her Victoria In Detail videos were filmed sitting in her chair. Rarely went anywhere to film anything of interest around her town or elsewhere. I mean she lived almost across the street from the train station, if I'm not mistaken. She could have hopped on a train once a month or so to go somewhere new for content. Either she is too lazy to be interesting or she just doesn't know how to be.
Her live streams were excruciatingly to watch without Ian. Eventually I stopped watching when he wasn't on. He would try to expound upon topics and her eyes would literally glaze over until she would get so irritated she would shut him down. Which always confounded me. It's like she didn't want anyone else to speak other than her, but then she wouldn't say anything. She had absolutely nothing to add. Often times the viewers would fill her in on Disney information. You would think if this was your one and only "job" in life, you would be pouring all over every website to absorb every ounce of Disney information. And every week you'd have a list of topics to discuss with your viewers. Not her. She just sat there like a blob reading comments and answering the same 20 questions over and over and over again. If that woman played with her hair one more time I swear to God I was going to kick my screen in. That would make a good drinking game. Everyone would have to take a shot every time she fussed with her hair. Unfortunately that would put people into a drunken coma.
And she's just as uninteresting in her Disney World videos as well when Ian or her friends aren't there. In fact, I can't stand watching her solo trips. It's like watching paint dry. She does absolutely nothing to be entertaining or engaging. Nothing to be informative. As much as she goes to Disney, she should be like a tour guide. Giving tips, inside information, pointers, interesting facts, trying different things on the menus to give food reviews. Nada. No, we just get coffee/doughnut videos. And People Mover rides.
And equally irritating is how she never follows through on anything. She'd be getting ready to do something and then the next edit would be hours later or the next day. And we'd get no follow-up. Just her making an excuse about either forgetting to film or whatever. I mentioned this in the comments to one video but in typical Victoria style, she never responded. This was not unusual, Victoria rarely, if ever, responds to comments. She can't be bothered; it's too much work. It always irritates me when content providers never engage with the people who support them. Just shows her true selfishness.
I don't know what people pay for. All those Patreon followers. I mean bless their hearts that they would try to support her but I don't see what they're getting in return. I foresee a lot of people dropping off now that Ian is gone cuz he was a heart of her live stream content. And I truly don't see how she is a will be able to go to DW like she did before for content. Her YouTube money likely paid for her plane tickets and maybe some portion of hotels too. But that was discretionary money because Ian was paying all the real life bills. She's on her own now. That money is no longer discretionary. She'll need it to live off of.
Truly, if Victoria was more of a genuine person I would feel sorry for her. Her life is going to change drastically for the worse. But it didn't appear from an outsider looking in that she tried to be more of a wife to Ian. We saw how fast she fixed up her office - her space. But glimpses we had of the family room looked lifeless. We got no house tour because I'm sure she couldn't be bothered to do anything else to rest of the house. I really thought the new house would be welcome source of content for her. But we got crickets.
Ian was positively beaming in that separation video. He was so nonchalant and matter-of-fact. You could tell he is more than fine with his decision. The time where he popped his head in on that one live stream and asked her if she had told them yet and she said no. He was eager to get the information out then. She wasn't and didn't say anything. Clearly it was too emotional for her to talk about. Ian was like whatever, let's get on with it.
I wonder if Ian hasn't regretted marrying her for the past few years. He was always out every weekend doing his own thing, leaving her home alone to sit in her chair playing with her planners and, more recently, Animal Crossing. I always found that very curious relationship situation.
The last year or so I could tell Ian was fed up with her TM excuses too. Whenever she would throw that as an excuse as to why she couldn't/didn't do something, he was always quick to jump in to call her out on it. The days of him letting that slide we're over.
Speaking of TM excuses, I was astounded to see Becky literally on her hands and knees scrubbing Victoria's bathroom floor with a toothbrush while Victoria stood there and filmed. That told me all I need to know about Victoria. She has no shame and she not a genuine person. I would have to be paralyzed before I let a friend clean my bathroom while I just stood there and watched. Seriously, who does that?
And I noticed how fast she was back to driving all of a sudden when she had to. Whereas before she said it was TM that prevented her from driving. How convenient that her TM cleared up enough for her to drive again just in the nick of time when Chauffeur Ian left her.
I don't begrudge Ian for turning to virtual reality games. I mean we all saw his reality. You'd try to escape to some fantasy world too if you were married to a lazy, Disney obsessed woman who did absolutely nothing else productive but put stickers in a planner. Even her Victoria In Detail videos were filmed sitting in her chair. Rarely went anywhere to film anything of interest around her town or elsewhere. I mean she lived almost across the street from the train station, if I'm not mistaken. She could have hopped on a train once a month or so to go somewhere new for content. Either she is too lazy to be interesting or she just doesn't know how to be.
Her live streams were excruciatingly to watch without Ian. Eventually I stopped watching when he wasn't on. He would try to expound upon topics and her eyes would literally glaze over until she would get so irritated she would shut him down. Which always confounded me. It's like she didn't want anyone else to speak other than her, but then she wouldn't say anything. She had absolutely nothing to add. Often times the viewers would fill her in on Disney information. You would think if this was your one and only "job" in life, you would be pouring all over every website to absorb every ounce of Disney information. And every week you'd have a list of topics to discuss with your viewers. Not her. She just sat there like a blob reading comments and answering the same 20 questions over and over and over again. If that woman played with her hair one more time I swear to God I was going to kick my screen in. That would make a good drinking game. Everyone would have to take a shot every time she fussed with her hair. Unfortunately that would put people into a drunken coma.
And she's just as uninteresting in her Disney World videos as well when Ian or her friends aren't there. In fact, I can't stand watching her solo trips. It's like watching paint dry. She does absolutely nothing to be entertaining or engaging. Nothing to be informative. As much as she goes to Disney, she should be like a tour guide. Giving tips, inside information, pointers, interesting facts, trying different things on the menus to give food reviews. Nada. No, we just get coffee/doughnut videos. And People Mover rides.
And equally irritating is how she never follows through on anything. She'd be getting ready to do something and then the next edit would be hours later or the next day. And we'd get no follow-up. Just her making an excuse about either forgetting to film or whatever. I mentioned this in the comments to one video but in typical Victoria style, she never responded. This was not unusual, Victoria rarely, if ever, responds to comments. She can't be bothered; it's too much work. It always irritates me when content providers never engage with the people who support them. Just shows her true selfishness.
I don't know what people pay for. All those Patreon followers. I mean bless their hearts that they would try to support her but I don't see what they're getting in return. I foresee a lot of people dropping off now that Ian is gone cuz he was a heart of her live stream content. And I truly don't see how she is a will be able to go to DW like she did before for content. Her YouTube money likely paid for her plane tickets and maybe some portion of hotels too. But that was discretionary money because Ian was paying all the real life bills. She's on her own now. That money is no longer discretionary. She'll need it to live off of.
Truly, if Victoria was more of a genuine person I would feel sorry for her. Her life is going to change drastically for the worse. But it didn't appear from an outsider looking in that she tried to be more of a wife to Ian. We saw how fast she fixed up her office - her space. But glimpses we had of the family room looked lifeless. We got no house tour because I'm sure she couldn't be bothered to do anything else to rest of the house. I really thought the new house would be welcome source of content for her. But we got crickets.
it’s all i can see when I look at her.
We got back yesterday and went in a couple of times. It's totally fine. Incredibly slow but totally fine 
