I never thought too deeply about the nicest person in rock thing, assumed ok to work with, ps and qs, alright with the media, gives respect where it’s due. Charismatic and fun. I did assume booze, good times times and rock n roll but did not think actual douche to the women of his life. Not shocked at all, surprised I guess - there’s a difference.
A lot of chat on the internet seems to think accepting the nice guy thing= infallible idol and therefore SHOCK.Seems like a kinda basic reading of people who enjoyed the Grohl to me, as is the internet’s way.