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samwilzrhcp

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I love this spin on it!

Honestly I think the ‘nicest guy in rock’ persona really worked for him and he was good at keeping it up. Most people (men) would find it easy to be affable and polite to people that literally worship them like a god. But behind the scenes he’s no different to the rest of men who cheat the world over- they just need to be entitled enough to justify it and have the opportunity. He has had both these things in spades.
This just proves he’s only human & he has a private life & he’s certainly far from perfect, but I love his music, & that’s about it, I don’t know the bloke so I’m certainly not going to judge him & get in a tailspin over something that doesn’t affect my life. I’ll still enjoy his music, & that applies to all bands & artists I love. Apart from Lost Prophets obviously. That’s where I draw the line 🤣!
 
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Cat87

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I was honestly such a fan of his, but now I just eye roll at the mere sight of him lol

I’m sure his wife and kids should have had more therapy than him!

Safe to say he’s had multiple affairs…… he just got caught this time
 
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I didn’t mind too much when violet came out last time I saw the Foos. In fact I was glad, I’d been dying for a piss and a drink and it was great to be given the opportunity to go and do that.
 
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LaraQ

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I just copy and paste the url into archive.ph if that helps

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'In 2004 a visitor to his recording studio (at that point not at his home) found that the wifi password was 'pussy' and there was a large poster of British pin-up Kelly Brook on the wall. Grohl also talked of having to get rid of the band's porn mags before singer Norah Jones saw them, which may have been a joke.

Jordyn Blum was familiar with this side of him. She is not his first wife, and before they were an item he had a reputation as a ladies' man. He was married in 1994 – the year Nirvana bandmate Kurt Cobain took his own life – to photographer Jennifer Leigh Youngblood. They split three years later. He reflected in 1999: 'I was 25, my wife was even younger. We weren't ready to get married.' He then dated Louise Post from the band Veruca Salt – who accused him of cheating on her with actress Winona Ryder and dozens of other women.
Another girlfriend was US snowboarder Tina Basich, who had to telephone him over and over for five weeks until he took her call and admitted he had moved on. She said: 'I was really in love with him. Break-ups suck. Rockstar break-ups suck the worst. All I got was a five-minute phone call after five weeks of me calling and trying to get ahold of him because I just had to know if these rumours were true.'
The rumours may have concerned actress Kari Wuhrer, his next girlfriend. She was followed by the band Hole's Melissa Auf der Maur who he dated until 2001. No wonder his late mother said: 'I did worry about women. My biggest fear was that Madonna would snatch him up.'
In addition, he was openly appreciative of the groupie scene when on tour. In a 2002 interview – given after he started dating Blum – he said: 'Groupies come to the back. They know what they want; they know what the band wants. It just happens. It's that easy.''

'In another interview he said: 'There's a difference between true love and a crush, lust and a one-night stand... I do like a good tryst, though.'
So where does Blum fit into this? She fell into his life in 2001, in the middle of this hedonistic period, and they started dating seriously the following year.
The initial encounter was in 2001 at the Sunset Marquis Whiskey Bar in West Hollywood. Grohl was drinking with his Foo Fighters' bandmate Taylor Hawkins. He said: 'Taylor was the looker. Some bombshell comes up and starts talking to Taylor.
'I've got trainers on, no socks, dirty shorts and a dirty T-shirt. She waved her friend Jordyn over. I was like, 'Oh my God. Not a chance!' So I'm just having some drinks and acting like a jackass. And by the end of the night I was p***ed and I'm staring at her going, 'You're my future ex-wife'.
'So she gave me her number: 'Jordyn, your future ex-wife'.'
But Grohl 'wasn't ready for a serious relationship' and 'stopped calling'. Everything changed when Hawkins was hospitalised in a coma after a heroin overdose in August 2001. (He died of a heart attack in March 2022 while Foo Fighters – whose hit Everlong has become a popular wedding song – were touring.)
Grohl said: 'I was sitting watching the snooker and this commercial comes on for chewing gum – this girl walking through the subway pickpocketing people. All of a sudden I think, 'That's that girl Jordyn, that's that chick!' And over the course of the next few days I start having these dreams about that life that I'd been thinking about, settling-down dreams.
'I thought, 'I'm not waiting one more minute, because life's too f***ing short, man. It's too delicate'. The day we got home I called her up and she said, 'Wow, I never thought I'd hear from you again'. So I took her to a restaurant... and that was that.'
Until this week's extraordinary admission......'
God, where did this nice guy rep come from?. He's always been a dog.
 
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Miss Begotten

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So apparently the woman Dave had an affair with is a porn star and he commited to regular therapy sessions afterwards, I take it this is his attempt to relaunch his image.
Do you really need regular therapy to discover you shouldn’t stick your dick in other women when you’re married?
 
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MrsDimSum

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He looks like a drinker...is he a sniffer too?
I saw them live this year and thought he looked like an absolute bag of shite. I put it down to the amount of touring and grieving he’s been doing the last year or so. But yeah he’s got a puffy boozers face and neck.

I realise now he was tired from being up all night playing hide the sausage
 
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Is she really a pornstar or is that just a way to put the onus on her for being too sexually audacious and him not being able to resist? Seems like a convenient way to shift the blame.
 
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Ketosibs

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I just copy and paste the url into archive.ph if that helps

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'In 2004 a visitor to his recording studio (at that point not at his home) found that the wifi password was 'pussy' and there was a large poster of British pin-up Kelly Brook on the wall. Grohl also talked of having to get rid of the band's porn mags before singer Norah Jones saw them, which may have been a joke.

Jordyn Blum was familiar with this side of him. She is not his first wife, and before they were an item he had a reputation as a ladies' man. He was married in 1994 – the year Nirvana bandmate Kurt Cobain took his own life – to photographer Jennifer Leigh Youngblood. They split three years later. He reflected in 1999: 'I was 25, my wife was even younger. We weren't ready to get married.' He then dated Louise Post from the band Veruca Salt – who accused him of cheating on her with actress Winona Ryder and dozens of other women.
Another girlfriend was US snowboarder Tina Basich, who had to telephone him over and over for five weeks until he took her call and admitted he had moved on. She said: 'I was really in love with him. Break-ups suck. Rockstar break-ups suck the worst. All I got was a five-minute phone call after five weeks of me calling and trying to get ahold of him because I just had to know if these rumours were true.'
The rumours may have concerned actress Kari Wuhrer, his next girlfriend. She was followed by the band Hole's Melissa Auf der Maur who he dated until 2001. No wonder his late mother said: 'I did worry about women. My biggest fear was that Madonna would snatch him up.'
In addition, he was openly appreciative of the groupie scene when on tour. In a 2002 interview – given after he started dating Blum – he said: 'Groupies come to the back. They know what they want; they know what the band wants. It just happens. It's that easy.''

'In another interview he said: 'There's a difference between true love and a crush, lust and a one-night stand... I do like a good tryst, though.'
So where does Blum fit into this? She fell into his life in 2001, in the middle of this hedonistic period, and they started dating seriously the following year.
The initial encounter was in 2001 at the Sunset Marquis Whiskey Bar in West Hollywood. Grohl was drinking with his Foo Fighters' bandmate Taylor Hawkins. He said: 'Taylor was the looker. Some bombshell comes up and starts talking to Taylor.
'I've got trainers on, no socks, dirty shorts and a dirty T-shirt. She waved her friend Jordyn over. I was like, 'Oh my God. Not a chance!' So I'm just having some drinks and acting like a jackass. And by the end of the night I was p***ed and I'm staring at her going, 'You're my future ex-wife'.
'So she gave me her number: 'Jordyn, your future ex-wife'.'
But Grohl 'wasn't ready for a serious relationship' and 'stopped calling'. Everything changed when Hawkins was hospitalised in a coma after a heroin overdose in August 2001. (He died of a heart attack in March 2022 while Foo Fighters – whose hit Everlong has become a popular wedding song – were touring.)
Grohl said: 'I was sitting watching the snooker and this commercial comes on for chewing gum – this girl walking through the subway pickpocketing people. All of a sudden I think, 'That's that girl Jordyn, that's that chick!' And over the course of the next few days I start having these dreams about that life that I'd been thinking about, settling-down dreams.
'I thought, 'I'm not waiting one more minute, because life's too f***ing short, man. It's too delicate'. The day we got home I called her up and she said, 'Wow, I never thought I'd hear from you again'. So I took her to a restaurant... and that was that.'
Until this week's extraordinary admission......'
I remember him giving lots of interviews where he discussed his predilection for groupies and stuff. I was a big fan and ate up all the rock media at the time.
I recall when Audioslave formed, Chris Cornell sort of came back as a more wholesome grown up grunger and we all loved it. I, for one, ate it up. He was sexy DILF mode and there was a comeback of the Seattle scene but just, less twatty. I often think the success of grown up Cornell influenced the era of ‘rockers gone sensible’.

I don’t think Grohl is a monster. Just an idiot. I think stuff like this should make people reconsider parasocial relationships a bit more.
 
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Abominatrix

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I feel like all of this could have been avoided if he didn't spend his whole career hiding behind this Nice Guy image. Touring musicians are cheaters, by and large. Doesn't make it okay or anything, but it kind of comes with the territory of being on the road and having tons of willing potential partners for the evening.

But Dave just had to play the wholesome family man, the ultimate Nice Guy who was just so gosh darn humble. So all of this is a much bigger deal than it would have been otherwise, comes as more a betrayal for fans of his.

So, what's next? Does he find religion? Head off to some spiritual retreat and come back all high off those farts?
 
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Cat87

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Well this women has done the confirming herself, to the post. Naming herself, and that the baby has the surname Grohl. Keeping the first name private, because there’s some “really angry fans”

a “rock n roll fan” AKA groupie, who knew exactly what she was doing.

I could never remain in a marriage of such a betrayal.

Dave and his groupie are both pieces of shit
 
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youncer

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He really disappeared up his own arse about the time Best of You came out. Once everyone started swooning over his great dad stories it got even worse. You reap what you sow Dave. If he was a private person and this happened I'd be like "meh" but he's pushed his great family man act heavily over the years and clearly thought he would get away with anything.
 
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HeyBabes

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I (preciously) try not to be a cuhnt about it but my husband and my brother absolutely cannot bear the rolling out of Violet and the shows.
Honestly if there’s one good thing that comes out of all this, I hope it’s Violet deciding to no longer perform with the Foo Fighters
 
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mrsX

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He had his nice guy image. And I believed it.

Earlier this yr tho when he made comments about Taylor swift.
I remeber thinking, did you need to do that? Was it necessary to try shit on a female artist? She hadn't done/said anything about you.

I just googled and that was june. Maybe he was under a bit of stress hahahaha.

I'll never understand why these men who cheat aren't smart enough to use condoms / get the snip.
 
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Cáca_Milis

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But surely if your going to shag around, know that babies can and do happen. Unless the lady changed her mind and a precious agreement was gone back on. Silly man though. Their dicks always get them in trouble
A wise woman once said "A standing cock has no conscience"
 
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