oh? substack is out dakota? then why are you posting on there again? it’s mostly behind a paywall of course, similar to our dear friend jack edwards... these things just don’t matter to you unless you can make a dime off them, i suppose." In: shotgun marriages, freud, out: gentle parenting"
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I don't own the book but I've seen a few of her poems, they're not awful but not super thought provoking. All style, no substance type writing.I also noticed she tends to recommend the same books over and over. Anyone that worships Dorian Grey gets a side eye from me...it's giving 2014 Tumblr lol. Has anyone read her poetry book?
If someone I was speaking to said macabre that way I'd say: "do you mean macabre?" She has a degree in English lit (right?) So there is no excuse.I didn't say all, but to dismiss pronunciation differences as "wrong" without knowing specifics is naive at best, elitist at worst (no offense!), especially considering there isn't just one "Australian English" and one "British English" either. If something is said in one way by a lot of (native) speakers, generally that means it is a (regional) variety of some sort (such as a dialect, sociolect, etc.), which is what I was getting at when I said I've heard it said like that a bunch. And while that may differ from the correct pronunciation in the standardized varieties of English, it is the correct pronunciation in that variety. To dismiss something like that outright is always a bit of a pretentious move, especially in contexts that don't call for a certain standardized pronunciation like that (meaning: she's not a news reporter on the BBC, she's on her own youtube channel and different contexts allow for different registers).
So no, it's not "100%" "die" (even though that's how I'd say it too) because there is no one single "accepted form". I'm not British but I would've assumed Brits would be especially atuned to this kind of thing, given how vastly different British regional accents are and how strong the bias and discrimination based on one's accent still seems to be there? Maybe not, idk. Sorry, I'm not trying to ruin the fun here (I love the snark!) or come for you specifically but if you're gonna snark, snark about something snark-worthy imo. Not about someone just... saying words slightly differently.
damn, and she´s a native speakerWhat's a straight jacket? A really well-tailored jacket with no wonky hems in sight?... Or does she mean STRAITjacket?...
Dakota, please forget that you're a poet more often. Forget it entirely, babe. It's not working for you.
pls for the love of god don't start watching, I can't watch her anymore due to her pretentious ramblingsI don't even watch her but I'm following this thread because she sounds hilarious
I quite like Carley, I think she has a good balance of sharing the same books and different books. If a book tuber is recommending tons of different books every video I find it disingenuous, especially as a critical reader myself.I was just thinking the same thing, she definitely tries a little too hard to seem intelectual and ends up limiting herself. But to be fair, I think there are other youtubers who are even more repetitive with their book recommendations, I mean Carley Thorne mentions the same books in literally every video she posts.
Do you know who her boyfriend is?Speaking of stories, I remember the Gentleman guy shared a story of Dakota and her bf into some PDA, it was up for some hours then it was deleted![]()
And "Baskiett"! (Hate to agree with her but Widow Basquiat is a great book)One of her reels just popped up on Instagram and made me cringe so hard. I just don’t think she has an original thought in her brain - from the books she reads to the ‘aesthetic’ she’s dragging from 2014 tumblr to 2025. Also her pronouncing Jeanette Winterson wrong and putting on an English accent. NO, we don’t claim you!!!!
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I didn't say all, but to dismiss pronunciation differences as "wrong" without knowing specifics is naive at best, elitist at worst (no offense!), especially considering there isn't just one "Australian English" and one "British English" either. If something is said in one way by a lot of (native) speakers, generally that means it is a (regional) variety of some sort (such as a dialect, sociolect, etc.), which is what I was getting at when I said I've heard it said like that a bunch. And while that may differ from the correct pronunciation in the standardized varieties of English, it is the correct pronunciation in that variety. To dismiss something like that outright is always a bit of a pretentious move, especially in contexts that don't call for a certain standardized pronunciation like that (meaning: she's not a news reporter on the BBC, she's on her own youtube channel and different contexts allow for different registers).I definitely have tried to give her the benefit of the doubt with a lot of pronunciations. But British English isn’t different enough from Australian English that ALL these words she butchers can be chalked up to accent. And no offense but just because you heard it one way doesn’t mean they said it correctly
Regardless of “dee” or “die” -aspora, even if “dee” might not be outright “wrong,” the accepted form is 100% “die.” But more importantly the emphasis needs to be on the second syllable. diASpora, not DEEuhspora. So, yes, her pronunciation is wrong.
I think it may be because her partner does not want to be associated with her online persona, esp if he (i assume) works in a job that requires thatI guess this thread isn’t too active but I had to say something - the whole thing about Dakota not sharing her significant other is soooo cringe to me, like showing photos of their clothes hanging up next to eachother is just begging people to ask who he is. If you really want him to be kept private, you wouldn’t show pictures of his clothes or even mention that you were seeing someone?! God, everything she does is complete pretentious cringe that we all did back in 2013/14 tumblr days. I can’t believe anyone actually takes her seriously
She explores "godhood"She's is pretty much what would come out of a machine if you asked a hipster male who only drinkssingle origin coffee
to input his ideal girl - dead behind the eyes, blunt cut bob, and just the right amount of 'appealing to dudes' with the gratuitous lip touching and eye-fucking herself
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The God killing stuff is so funny to me, I can't even begin to take it seriously. That's the shit that makes me think, 'wow she's really not aware of how she sounds, is she?'.
it's drivel with added drawers onWhat a load of drivel.
That´s interesting, I did not know that! In my country private schools are usually catholic, apart from the few private international schools.Catholic schools are pretty common in Australia, lots of non-catholics attend them as they are heavily subsidised by the government. They are considered the "cheap" private school option, generally much more affordable than the fancy protestant private schools, but with a better standard than many public schools.
I can very well see that being the case.It wouldn't surprise me if Dakota wasn't raised catholic at all, but was sent to a catholic school and is just exaggerating for the aesthetic.