God I'd have more respect for some people if they just now and again, took some level of criticism on the chin, indulged in some self reflection, and actually learnt about themselves (and not just about the vaccine, or defending an intractable position).
Entering this thread is like being in the trenches,and some people have dug themselves in deep ...so deep that they are wasting precious time and mental energy in trying to prove themselves right again and again?
Which begs the question if they are so confident of their interpretation of things (and that's all it is, because everyone see's reality differently) then why get so over invested in defending their position?
Bloody hell it's getting exhausting, I seriously don't know how some have so much energy to devote to this?
As for the often heard argument it's not just us...it's you as well, yes I get that, sometimes even the best of is argumentative...
We are all only human and the last two years have been incredibly stressful. However it comes back, as far as I'm concerned to the huge pressure society, family and yes even people on Tattle life, exerted on the (much maligned at the time) unvaccinated.
As has been said previously people don't forget or forgive that easily, and the fact was some vaccinated people were complicit in real discrimination,fear mongering and yes spreading misinformation...(oh yes just look at all the things the government is now backtracking on, and trying to distance itself from regarding COVID) yet (some) people had a field day having a go at others and laying down the law, and yes being judgemental...that those very same people, (in some cases) are still going on the attack (attack being the best form of defence) is actually quite sad?
In a way all they are showing is they didn't learn anything at all from this pandemic (so why should I take their opinions seriously?)...
They still believe they are right...and are even more convinced of it now ...and nothing was wrong with their behaviour... basically backing a totalitarian government (yes it was at times, even though Boris acts the Buffon, as if he was really harmless and meant well, we all know that's an act, and just because emergency powers were granted, doesn't mean that justifies very Draconian rules and regulations)
So some people haven't moved on...they want to bask in the satisfaction (smugness anyone?) of being the good virtuous ones, and righteous citizens of the pandemic....woo hoo....good for them!
Then if anyone dares to say anything....it wasn't them (despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary) it was you (the observer ....god give me strength...and rinse and repeat!
I really think (with certain people) as intelligent as some of them obviously are (and no I'm not being sarcastic) that in itself is not enough to justify how rigid their position and analysis is?
So basically some of us (again I'm not naming names) are basically getting dragged into (yet another) frustrating back and forth...and yes it's from both sides...but the crucial different is (imo) one side supported the bullying and discrimination of others (in society and online) yes I'm repeating myself....some people don't want to admit this....now they have to prove themselves right to justify that....least it reveal not very pleasant things about their own personalities ..
So we have the zealots....and if you argue with them you get gaslit. .and tbh of the very numerous back and forth exchanges I have witnessed...the heavily ridiculed ones (that will be us tin foil hat wearing so called conspiracy theorists) and you know they aren't daft ...we are easy targets...to dump a lot of uncomfortable emotions onto ...yeah we usually get provoked and baited....(how many times has that happened?)
Then we get fed up and respond....e viola...they got the reaction they were after ..... whatever they are guilty of now gets passed onto us....well done...
So many eloquent, heartbreaking posts have been written (and disregarded by some) about genuine worry and concern and yes love for our families and friends....(and yes in some cases vaccine side effects and reactions)....
Yet we are demonised as vultures and ghouls
(projection)...
I thought this was supposed to be an open forum...yet don't you dare diss the vaccine...or you'll get a dressing down
and taken down a peg or two....for goodness sake....even I can see how ludicrous that is.....why can't (some) others?
Not to mention its downright insensitive sometimes..yeah stop dismissing people's experiences just because it doesn't fit in with the dominant Narrative!
Then again this was never really about the vaccine was it? That was just a pretext ...for blatant self righteousness and Virtue signalling....and rinse and repeat...and onto the next issue....and the next...
They support the current issue... whatever that is... because (probably) it gives a sense of belonging, (which maybe doesn't come from inside)?
So that's the labyrinth we get tangled up in, in pointing out other people's shortcomings they have justification (they think,)...in saying we are on the same level....
Actually no, we are not on the same level....I don't support the current issue of the day,(because i can draw my own conclusions) and I don't support mandate's or coercion or telling others what to do ...or discrimination...just because the unvaxxed (or conspiracy theorists) gave (,some) people justification in being bullies and acting like fascists.... doesn't mean they are right....?
In my opinion they never will be...and it's not about vaccines or truth....it's about people's attitude and lack of respect and (unfounded) superiority complex ...that they (have to) relentlessly hammer home .....again and again ....
Some just can't face the fact that they are wrong (in attitude, and feeling about others, such animosity for example)...sorry (not sorry) but this is arrested development....and it quickly gets petty and small minded and yes vindictive...so people maybe shouldn't be so quick in condemning others, least they actually condemn themselves...and that's exactly what some of them are doing in my opinion.