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comes complete with a UK roadmap.
comes complete with a UK roadmap.
personally I think thatās a bit unfair, people are almost shamed for not being excited to go to the bleeping pub.but not everyone is wanting to feel that way.
Itās not about not wanting to feel that way. People can not force themselves to feel happy and positive especially in a time like this when mental health is so fragile. Itās okay if people want to be excited and it is also okay if people are not feeling it.Summer of freedom could be brought to crashing end by FOURTH Covid wave
SUMMER freedoms may be capped once again by a fourth Covid wave, scientists fear. The roadmap out of lockdown has given hope for a world without restrictions by June 21 at the earliest ā withā¦www.thesun.co.uk
I answered happy and positive to the poll, but not everyone is wanting to feel that way.
On behalf of a lot of people, thank you. This is really what I needed right now. I feel bleeping awful that I'm not bouncing off the walls but it takes everything in me to wake up in the morning. I want to be excited but I'm not.personally I think thatās a bit unfair, people are almost shamed for not being excited to go to the bleeping pub.
there are a lot of people who couldnāt give a rats ass if they never see a pub again because theyāre doing everything in their power to not walk in front of a train or swallow a bunch of pills.
Itās not a case of āif youāre not happy youāre a Debbie downerā
You canāt force happiness on people because youāve heard that some might get to go to Costa Del Chavs in august.
it worries me that people feel like they need to force happiness for appearance sake or thereās something wrong with them.
feel how the duck you want. If youāre not phased by bojoās motorway and you donāt feel positive.
Thatās ok.
(and Iām speaking as someone looking in not effected by any of this)
I totally agree. Iāve shielded as a single adult household for most the year, remember that 3 months when we were literally told not to leave our homes at all? I feel a whole host of emotions, happy yes, but primarily very anxious! How I āwantā to feel doesnāt even come into it.Itās not about not wanting to feel that way. People can not force themselves to feel happy and positive especially in a time like this when mental health is so fragile. Itās okay if people want to be excited and it is also okay if people are not feeling it.
This is exactly how I feel.Iām really struggling to feel optimistic about the āroadmapā. I get everyone is super excited by a prospective end date and Iād love to be one of those people but after a year or let downs and being dictated as to what we can and canāt do I just donāt feel like I can get too excited or enthusiastic about it. I guess I just donāt want more disappointment.
As for the vaccine passport- for something that is supposedly optional isnāt it basically saying āyou either have it or you canāt do fun stuff?ā I know a few people that arenāt able to have it due to medical conditions- what kind of life will they be allowed to live? Plus the people with most disposable income and who will be more likely to go out and spend money and boost tourism etc are months away from being fully vaccinated. I just donāt see how it will work.
Sorry if I sound like a Debbie downer but Iām just really struggling to continue to follow rules set by someone like Boris whilst keeping some sort of optimism. Like the saying goes- if he tells you to jump off a cliff, would you?
I can imagine it has been very hard for you and feeling anxious is understandable. For me feeling the way I do (anxious and not excited) is my way of protecting myself from feeling let down again if the roadmap does not pan out the way they are saying. I am taking each day as it comes as things have changed so quickly in the past. I donāt want to get my hopes up too much. Thatās not to say I am expecting the worse, but I also want to remain level-headed. This probably makes no sense.I totally agree. Iāve shielded as a single adult household for most the year, remember that 3 months when we were literally told not to leave our homes at all? I feel a whole host of emotions, happy yes, but primarily very anxious! How I āwantā to feel doesnāt even come into it.
Im glad many on here are optimistic and sharing their excitement about getting back to a pub or a nightclub or whatever,On behalf of a lot of people, thank you. This is really what I needed right now. I feel bleeping awful that I'm not bouncing off the walls but it takes everything in me to wake up in the morning. I want to be excited but I'm not.
Iām so sorry you lost someone close to Covid and for what you are going through and feeling, sending you love and light. I hope in time you will begin to feel better but it is okay to feel the way you do. We are all feeling out of sorts for whatever we are going through in our lives.I answered still a long way to go
Emotionally feel a bit all over the place - Covid has taken so much from me including a family member and I want nothing more than it to be over, for no more people to lose their lives and for people to have their lives back
All just feels so empty - all good news is overshadowed by the fact it was too late for my mother in law.
I'm also really worried about going back to "normal life" - what does that even look like anymore?
Hate that I'm not being optimistic though - need to snap out of it!!