KindnessWins
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Happy MondayMaybe you fact you haven't followed her long and dip in and out should be a factor before you jump down my throat. As someone else has said, literally 2 weeks before pregnancy she put up lots of stories saying how she absolutely did not want babies so you can understand understand people are shocked. Yes it's beautiful news she is pregnant and clearly so excited! But no one was saying anything negative, it was just an observation that her personality has quickly changed to baby obsessed and so maybe she DID always want kids but something made her say she didn't as a defense mechanism. That is not being bitchy or making "a big deal"... it's an observation and I would even say empathetic towards her.
No one was jumping down your throat
Genuinely asking why females who say they don’t want kids are not believed? Men say it all the time and no one really questions their decisions.
But when a female states their desire to remain childless, they are met with a barrage of questions or, as in the case, people questioning the real reason behind it (Richard not wanting kids etc)
Some people even mentioned that it could be down to medical reasons, which if that was the case, it may have been easier to say they didn’t want kids incase that was never going to be possible for them.