Hi all, brand new member here. I found this site after Claire mentioned gossip forums on her story so I Googled her name and these threads came up. I have to share just what I think of her lately because her carry-on has been so negative the past while.
1. I started following her in 2016 when her hair just started following out, first on Facebook then Snapchat, we share a mutual friend in real life so it was purely word of mouth I discovered her page and up until then I didn’t know much about alopecia but I found her so relatable and real, and funny and charismatic and I genuinely started to really care about her - when you watch someone’s stories every day you do find this will happen.
2. Back then her following was quite small, on Snapchat we messaged back and forth a few times, the content was funny despite her going through a hard time, there was no insulting other Snapchatter’s content or no passive aggressive judgements - just her quick witted “Dublin Mam” self, navigating a difficult time, telling funny stories, the type of girl you’d love to have a few pints with. Her trying to snap when Ian wasn’t around was gas too, he’d come in the room and she’d get all shy, it was funny to watch.
3. Around this time she was invited to talk on Ray Darcy show and a few morning talk shows about Alopecia and she would get so excited. I remember a few times she couldn’t believe it when her snaps were viewed by other famous(ish) Irish Snapchatters - Joanne Larby was one and Rosemary McCabe was another one, she was excited and I was excited for her.
4. She made the switch to Insta in 2018 and in my opinion her content and personality changed a lot after that switch. I was delighted her hair was growing back and I wanted to compliment her but I had no way of messaging her (to this day I don’t know why she won’t accept DMs, even Instagrammers with millions of followers aren’t so closed off). On Snapchat there had been a rapport there, but I understood the following was really really growing on Insta so I was happy enough to forfeit the ability to DM because I loved the daily stories.
5. I started to notice her obsession with other influencers and how she could make seemingly harmless jibes at them through trying to make it a funny comparison like “I’m real, you won’t catch me doing an OOTD or doing a #gifted unboxing”, or by mimicking their voices or accents. Consequently, she would still make a point of showing her outfits off but saying how weird and whacky she looked, “isn’t my dress sense so out there”. And she would still do the few unboxings here and there. Basically I noticed the hypocrisy at that point.
6. I enjoyed her drunken antics with Ian believe it or not - before it got to the really messy stage of course! I disagreed with how much of her life she was beginning to share especially about the kids. But the big decline in my respect for her happened around the time she became the self-appointed, high horse Covid Police woman after that BPerfect event. Her ranting was profane and it wasn’t serving anyone really - it was so after-the-fact and pointless, filled with spite and vitriol and so clearly aimed at those on the bus. Then her back and forth with that physiotherapist youngfella was laughable - granted he was in the wrong but why engage? The negative vibes coming off her account every day was too much.
7. I’m glad she took the break. I’m still following but it’s car crash watching at this stage, you’d think after some reflection she’d give up harping on about other Instagrammers, engage with her following more than close herself off, I wish she would go back to her roots of Snapchat, share her funny anecdotes, spread laughs, happiness and stop with the negativity.
If you’ve read this far thank you! Had to get that off my chest
Ps. I paid to go to one of her shows and I felt she actively engaged with the audience, bit of sad self-help monologue at times but loads of laughs dotted throughout it and you leave feeling enlightened. I felt there was a bit of fakeness at the end for the meet and greet though
Smiling through gritted teeth