Just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary with mineI am also married to a West African (not ghanaian) He would actually put me on my place if I behave like that on the internet. White women that are married to black man and now think they are black is actually such a pet peeve of mine. For some reason she also thinks she is the only one that Is married for 14 years with a "black king" But I am married to my husband for 18 years.