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frillseeker
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Does anyone else find it a bit odd that she's constantly out and about without her baby? Her life doesn't seem to have changed at all, if anything it looks she's going out more now than before!
Bostonx
VIP Member
It’s nearly 2020. If people can’t comprehend that not all Is as it’s appears on social media maybe they shouldn’t use it. People rarely post the tough moments. I highly doubt she’s going to look on here and think oh fuck Sandra who’s only left her kid for 3.5 seconds in the space of 56 months is right I shouldn’t be living my life the way I want. These are her moments, if she needs more breaks than others cool. If she has a support system to continue her previous lifestyle cool. Good mums aren’t just the ones who don’t want to leave their kids.
Blue raspberry slush pupp
VIP Member
Funnily enough I don’t think she’s too dissimilar to jakes partner now lolI don’t follow Chloe but she just popped up in my Explore bit on Instagram - does anyone else think her BF looks weirdly like her ex Jake Hall?!
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Livingontheedge
Member
That would be the absolute worst thing she could ever do! I hope she never gives him the time of day again.
NeedsAVacation
New member
You're making yourself look dumb now. Making up your own facts. Based on 15 second clips on insta. My son took his first steps at 14 months and I was with him 24/7. Every child walks at different ages. Every child reaches milestones differently nothing to do with the mother.
xcyber
Chatty Member
I unfollowed. Her posts are so boring. Pilates, weird naked day outfits and her son. 
Tbh I don’t even think it’s elocution lessons that are needed she just seems incredibly dull and not particularly intelligent.
I used to think she was so incredibly beautiful back when she first came on TOWIE. Really classy and different. Now she just looks like everyone else.
Tbh I don’t even think it’s elocution lessons that are needed she just seems incredibly dull and not particularly intelligent.
I used to think she was so incredibly beautiful back when she first came on TOWIE. Really classy and different. Now she just looks like everyone else.
It’s also nearly 2020 where we now realise the impact that lack of attachment can have in later life. Just because people don’t agree with a lifestyle doesn’t mean they are ‘mum shaming’ that is as much shit as women empowering women. These people revolve their life around insta and being desperate for attention and unfortunately in that lifestyle their babies seem to be an accessory. Actual sickens me when I see tiny babies been passed to whoever will watch them so Mums can have their same life
Just makes me sad... Feels like the pregnancy and baby is all for her profile/insta. I said somewhere else that her portrayal of motherhood is misleading for young mums...if you have loads of support, free stuff and aren't breastfeeding then maybe you don't have to change your lifestyle too much but her pics make it seem a hell of a lot easier than it is for 99% of us
Do you not think that is a slightly naive or blinkered way to see it? Yeah it is nearly 2020 and we should be wiser to crap like this but the truth is a lot of people aren't.
Of course some people find it easy to understand that the perfect lives they see on social media probably aren't really that perfect. Being a member of tattle means that you likely realised this a while ago!
But even reading a few threads on here, you encounter people who have gone into debt trying to keep up with what they saw on Instagram. And the countless research papers out there into links between maternal mental health problems and social media suggests that there are a lot of people unable to spot the difference between insta and reality.
So it is all well and good to say "don't follow her if you don't like it" or "don't use social media if you can't tell that it isn't real" but I think that's quite a lazy argument
xcyber
Chatty Member
Being an ugly teen is the reason I’m the hilarious bastard I am today. But also I think Chloe might have a bit of a low IQ, bless her.I’m convinced this is what happens to people who grow up being beautiful. They don’t have to develop a personality! Try being a teenager with mad frizzy hair pre GHDs
nightmareonbondstreet
Well-known member
Is it just me or does she always seem to either be on holiday or at Pilates?
WaffleTriangle
Active member
I disagree completely. These are influencers with a huge following, probably a large proportion mums or mums to be, who as stated above assume its easy to leave children when in reality it isn’t and of course the majority of mothers do put their babies needs before a night out or business trips. She will not get those moments back and I assume that one day when she’s grown up a little bit she will look back on her desire to go out & “live her best life” with her friends and understand the negativity she’s had in the press over how unattached to her baby she is. She will long for those moments once the opportunity is up.
Whether it’s 2020 or 1905, she is a mother and a few cocktails or champagne is not as important as a secure attachment with your child.
Her ignorance to actual motherhood is what is wrong with influencers.
This is the problem... I don't want to mum shame her, I am sure she is a great mum and and she loves her baby and whoever looks after him when she isn't around does too.
The issue I guess is with influencer life in general. She shows all the snuggly sleepy baby pictures and all the work/socialising side but I would have zero problem with her if she shared some less than perfect images (and also ones that's weren't using her baby to flog stuff but that is something else) and was more transparent. Maybe explain that she just needed a break and someone is looking after baby and she is really grateful. But if you were to judge mum life just based on her squares and captions, it looks easy with baby being something you can leave at home when you fancy going shopping. And when you are flogging a lifestyle and products to potentially vulnerable young people then I think that does need shaming
The issue I guess is with influencer life in general. She shows all the snuggly sleepy baby pictures and all the work/socialising side but I would have zero problem with her if she shared some less than perfect images (and also ones that's weren't using her baby to flog stuff but that is something else) and was more transparent. Maybe explain that she just needed a break and someone is looking after baby and she is really grateful. But if you were to judge mum life just based on her squares and captions, it looks easy with baby being something you can leave at home when you fancy going shopping. And when you are flogging a lifestyle and products to potentially vulnerable young people then I think that does need shaming
OnABoatLife
New member
My girlfriends and I were just talking about her and her bf over brunch (we think he's got big dick energy) so I came on here to do the digging! First off I l do like Chloe, she always dresses really well, seems pretty normal and down to earth. We just cant figure out why she'd leave her attractive bf over in Dubai and not keep her family together? Isnt she worried he would met someone else over there? She has a new family now and a young baby (a very cute kid) and it looks like she's risking losing the new family just to be closer to her parents and sister. Then literally not to mention him for a year or anything about moving home after 1 year in Dubai? Its baffling .. why not just mention how hard it was to settle over there? wags do it all the time move for years with their partners work.
Firecrotch69
Well-known member
Oh ok ass kisser
RunningMum
Active member
She attends my pilates class in Loughton and I have to say she seems like a real sweetheart.