Chloe and Beans

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I find the hypocrisy between her obsession with “subtly” sharing how advanced her babies are vs how stunted the intelligence of her older children are to be very entertaining. She obviously doesn’t recognise the cognitive dissonance here 😂
 
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I’m sorry, but my four kids would have demolished that food quite easily in an afternoon. Mostly fruit, popcorn for under fives too, yikes.
 
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I find it dangerous how she avoided hospital staff whilst in labour with Birdie who had no fluid surrounding her. Like, what? What was she planning to do - just push her out with no assistance and hope for the best? I can understand not wanting unnecessary interventions but it feels borderline dangerous to me.

Also curious if she was asleep for this latest birth then if she can't handle the anaesthesia?
 
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I find it dangerous how she avoided hospital staff whilst in labour with Birdie who had no fluid surrounding her. Like, what? What was she planning to do - just push her out with no assistance and hope for the best? I can understand not wanting unnecessary interventions but it feels borderline dangerous to me.

Also curious if she was asleep for this latest birth then if she can't handle the anaesthesia?
she was knocked out for the latest
 
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This is all so weird! Imagining putting yourself (and the babies!!) through all this after the c-sections where she said they were the most traumatic experiences of her life AND you already had EIGHT children AND you already had a mix of sexes.
 
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I wonder if her midwife or Doctor has advised her to have no more children for the sake of her health.

I was just watching Otto's birthday vlog and at the start one of the little kids wanted to be picked but Chloe said she can't as the cut on her tummy still hurts.

Again Otto got some boring presents. Shoes,again Otto said his current pair were too small.

I don't know, when you're 11 do you want to spend it with all your brothers and sisters? It feels like it takes away from your day.

Was there any dinner? Or was sandwiches at the park it.
 
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I feel bad for the children … they basically now know what they will be getting for their future birthdays … no individuality when it comes to gifts and it looks like she waits for birthdays to get them things they desperately need eg shoes .. they asked for shoes at Christmas as they were too small.
 
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I feel bad for the children … they basically now know what they will be getting for their future birthdays … no individuality when it comes to gifts and it looks like she waits for birthdays to get them things they desperately need eg shoes .. they asked for shoes at Christmas as they were too small.
I can’t stand it when parents do this. I know of someone who made their children use birthday/Christmas money to buy clothes. Not expensive clothes they wanted but clothes they needed! It’s rotten. Birthdays/christmas are for a little bit of indulgence and giving your kids what they really want!

I can understand if it’s a teenager that wants a pair of £200 trainers or something - it’s an extravagance at that point and they probably don’t want anything else. But for younger children absolutely not, get them some toys or something interesting
 
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I can’t stand it when parents do this. I know of someone who made their children use birthday/Christmas money to buy clothes. Not expensive clothes they wanted but clothes they needed! It’s rotten. Birthdays/christmas are for a little bit of indulgence and giving your kids what they really want!

I can understand if it’s a teenager that wants a pair of £200 trainers or something - it’s an extravagance at that point and they probably don’t want anything else. But for younger children absolutely not, get them some toys or something interesting
Btw, I hate their matchey matchey themes, particularly when over the age of five. Those checkerboard shoes to me are really not cute at all.
 
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I can’t stand it when parents do this. I know of someone who made their children use birthday/Christmas money to buy clothes. Not expensive clothes they wanted but clothes they needed! It’s rotten. Birthdays/christmas are for a little bit of indulgence and giving your kids what they really want!

I can understand if it’s a teenager that wants a pair of £200 trainers or something - it’s an extravagance at that point and they probably don’t want anything else. But for younger children absolutely not, get them some toys or something interesting
Absolutely I feel the same basic things they actually need aren’t a gift but a parental responsibility.
 
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I used to get gifts like this as a child when my parents were very poor. I once got a PE kit for Christmas. Heartbreaking but my parents really struggled at that time. Looking back, I really don’t blame them, I can’t imagine what it was like for them.
 
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I find it dangerous how she avoided hospital staff whilst in labour with Birdie who had no fluid surrounding her. Like, what? What was she planning to do - just push her out with no assistance and hope for the best? I can understand not wanting unnecessary interventions but it feels borderline dangerous to me.

Also curious if she was asleep for this latest birth then if she can't handle the anaesthesia?
She was going for a vbac again, but baby's heart beat dropped to 50, so she had what would have been a crash csection. There would have been no question at all with a heart beat dropping that low to have an epidural etc - that's at the point of baby dying during labour.
 
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