It will get easier once you are in a routine. Thinking of you xxx
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Big hugs @Belle Amie it does get easier but it’s horrible at the time. You deserve em so much happiness and you will get it.
Hope you’re feeling better after your cry @Peaches_xox and you can have a nice day in between working.
Sorry to hear you had a bad day yesterday @ordinaryjelly hope today is better.
Lots of love for today @watermelon sugar hope mini watermelon has a lovely day and you’re not too sad. Try and do something nice whilst he’s there just for you.
Hope everyone else is ok and lots of love to those who need it. The sun is shining here which always helps my mood. I’m in the office today but on my own which is weird. Hopefully it goes quickly I’m meeting a friend for a walk in lunch and I’ve for a barre class after work so not all bad.
Hope you’re feeling better after your cry @Peaches_xox and you can have a nice day in between working.
Sorry to hear you had a bad day yesterday @ordinaryjelly hope today is better.
Lots of love for today @watermelon sugar hope mini watermelon has a lovely day and you’re not too sad. Try and do something nice whilst he’s there just for you.
Hope everyone else is ok and lots of love to those who need it. The sun is shining here which always helps my mood. I’m in the office today but on my own which is weird. Hopefully it goes quickly I’m meeting a friend for a walk in lunch and I’ve for a barre class after work so not all bad.
@Belle Amie everyone wrote such kind words to you above so I won't repeat, but like watermelon said one day your person will come into your life and you will find that happiness. Just remember you don't really know why he is moving, maybe he just has new neighbours who have been driving him crazy. Your friends are a bit mean to not let you talk about something that is bothering you. There is no time frame for 'moving on' just because some people can move on quickly it doesn't mean we all can. Be kind to yourself, we are always here to offload to.
@watermelon sugar aww, it is a big day for both you are mini melon. I remember feeling so lost when my youngest went to play school and I was all alone. But like @Libbylulu says you'll find your own routine. Don't feel you have to rush around doing things that would be easier with a child in tow - grocery shopping, cleaning etc, sit on the sofa with a coffee watching trashy tv if that helps.
Thank you everyone for your kind words. Today is a new day. Thank goodness.
@watermelon sugar aww, it is a big day for both you are mini melon. I remember feeling so lost when my youngest went to play school and I was all alone. But like @Libbylulu says you'll find your own routine. Don't feel you have to rush around doing things that would be easier with a child in tow - grocery shopping, cleaning etc, sit on the sofa with a coffee watching trashy tv if that helps.
Thank you everyone for your kind words. Today is a new day. Thank goodness.
I felt loads better yesterday but I feel really rough again today. I just sat at my desk and had a little 5 minute pity party to myself. My head is thumping and I just feel generally tit, but I know if I ask to go home I'll feel horrendous guilt because the work is stacking right up 
Doesn't help the puppy had me up at 4am this morning either 
Doesn't help the puppy had me up at 4am this morning either @WilmaHun aww having a puppy really is like having a new born. But if you feel really ropey put i yourself first before work.
Ok I’ve dropped him off. I cried 
he didn’t even notice me and mr melon walked off so I think that made me cry more 
he didn’t even notice me and mr melon walked off so I think that made me cry more Aww bless you @watermelon sugar when I dropped mine off and they didn't care if I left someone once told me it is because they are secure in the knowledge that you will always come back for them, their attachment and confidence is a result of how you have raised him. So while it sucks it is kind of a back handed compliment on your parenting.
you always make me feel better! Hope you’re ok 
Aw I hope mini melon has a fab first day at nursery! What are you going to do with your freedom @watermelon sugar
I’m in Primark at the mo 
wanted some sunglasses cos it’s well sunny! Luckily cos my fella is losing his job anyway he’s just turned round and said I’m having the day off today so I can take the baby to nursery, so he’s with me to keep me company 
he starts his new job next week and it’s longer days so it’s nice to get some time in with him!
wanted some sunglasses cos it’s well sunny! Luckily cos my fella is losing his job anyway he’s just turned round and said I’m having the day off today so I can take the baby to nursery, so he’s with me to keep me company he starts his new job next week and it’s longer days so it’s nice to get some time in with him!That’ll be lovely to have some time just the two of you! Can’t wait to hear how mini melons day goes. Oooo let us know what he has for lunch they used to serve the most random stuff at little peaches old nursery like Thai green curry which he apparently ate but would never eat rice at home
Omg mini melon would snarl a bowl of Thai green curry, he’d be all ‘where are the alpha bites @‘
Congratulations to Mr Melon @ new job. I hope mini melon has a lovely time at nursery. @watermelon sugar
@BelleAmie sending you all the love!
It's hard missing ex partners. I still cry most days thinking about my ex.
@BelleAmie sending you all the love!
It's hard missing ex partners. I still cry most days thinking about my ex.
@BelleAmie sorry you feel like this. I don’t want to repeat what everyone else has said but I will say that time is a healer and you will feel better soon
@watermelon sugar glad that mini melon went in without much fuss!! enjoy your day with mr melon. ps great to hear that he has a new job lined up. That is impressive!!
@WilmaHun hope your day goes as quickly as possible!
Nothing much to report here
Bought some fart whistles to help the baby with his wind. Will let you know how that goes
@watermelon sugar glad that mini melon went in without much fuss!! enjoy your day with mr melon. ps great to hear that he has a new job lined up. That is impressive!!
@WilmaHun hope your day goes as quickly as possible!
Nothing much to report here
Bought some fart whistles to help the baby with his wind. Will let you know how that goes
Thank you so much for the love 
I know I’m a broken record because I’m always going on about him and so I really appreciate that you always take the time to listen (read). I know that we weren’t right together but I hate that I wasn’t enough for him. I tried so hard to be the best girlfriend and it still wasn’t enough. So now I feel like will I ever be enough for anyone or am I always going to be missing something?
@watermelon sugar congrats to Mr Melon on his new job! Hope you two are having a lovely day together, let us know how mini gets on
I know I’m a broken record because I’m always going on about him and so I really appreciate that you always take the time to listen (read). I know that we weren’t right together but I hate that I wasn’t enough for him. I tried so hard to be the best girlfriend and it still wasn’t enough. So now I feel like will I ever be enough for anyone or am I always going to be missing something? @watermelon sugar congrats to Mr Melon on his new job! Hope you two are having a lovely day together, let us know how mini gets on
@BelleAmie don’t be silly, we’ve all been heartbroken before we know how hard it is! You’re more than enough and someone will be lucky to be able to call you their girlfriend one day!
you should definitely be happy as dropping my brother to nursery was a chore he would cry as soon as we got close to it and then he would hold me tight bawling his eyes out and the teachers would be trying to cheer him up and hug him and pull him towards them and kinda tell me to leave and then id walk home crying. it was so bad.Ok I’ve dropped him off. I cried
@BelleAmie if you tried to be the best girlfriend and it wasn’t enough for him then he’s not enough for you! You deserve somebody who makes you feel like you are enough and you shouldn’t even have to try, should just be able to be yourself. You will be more then enough for the right person
Aww mini watermelon is having his first day at nursery bet he'll love it @watermelon sugar 
sending hugs @BelleAmie breakups are horrible and although some people get over it quick other people take a little longer and that's fine and your friends should be there for you and if it helps you should let you speak about your ex. Just know you will be more then enough for some lucky man out there. Don't forget you can always talk to us about how you are feeling.
sending hugs @BelleAmie breakups are horrible and although some people get over it quick other people take a little longer and that's fine and your friends should be there for you and if it helps you should let you speak about your ex. Just know you will be more then enough for some lucky man out there. Don't forget you can always talk to us about how you are feeling.
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