Chikara Transformations (ilona)

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I find it really unprofessional (not that being an influencer is a real job lol) that she films videos while holding her baby or having her baby directly in the background. It's basically the equivalent to bringing your child to a work meeting or Zoom call. It's inappropriate, distracting and it instantly makes me not take her seriously. She could film during nap times or have her aMaZiNg pArtNer watch the baby while she films. She's just being lazy and not planning ahead.

She's also doing the hypocritical thing where she pretends to care about her child's privacy...but she's still using the child's body as a prop for attention. She NEEDS everyone to know that she's a MOM and she needs attention, praise and validation for being a MOM. :rolleyes:

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I find it really unprofessional (not that being an influencer is a real job lol) that she films videos while holding her baby or having her baby directly in the background. It's basically the equivalent to bringing your child to a work meeting or Zoom call. It's inappropriate, distracting and it instantly makes me not take her seriously. She could film during nap times or have her aMaZiNg pArtNer watch the baby while she films. She's just being lazy and not planning ahead.

She's also doing the hypocritical thing where she pretends to care about her child's privacy...but she's still using the child's body as a prop for attention. She NEEDS everyone to know that she's a MOM and she needs attention, praise and validation for being a MOM. :rolleyes:

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that's extremely weird. she must be starving for validation if she needs strangers on the internet to tell her that "motherhood looks good on her".
 
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Yeah as I said it might sound quite out there for you but I bet you she’s already been asked if that’s her grandchild. My cousin is 37 and had her 4th child over there in Sofia and when people find out her age they always ask her if that’s her grandchild lol. People have kids at like 20 there so it’s a bit unusual and I can see it happening to her
 
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I find it really unprofessional (not that being an influencer is a real job lol) that she films videos while holding her baby or having her baby directly in the background. It's basically the equivalent to bringing your child to a work meeting or Zoom call. It's inappropriate, distracting and it instantly makes me not take her seriously. She could film during nap times or have her aMaZiNg pArtNer watch the baby while she films. She's just being lazy and not planning ahead.

She's also doing the hypocritical thing where she pretends to care about her child's privacy...but she's still using the child's body as a prop for attention. She NEEDS everyone to know that she's a MOM and she needs attention, praise and validation for being a MOM. :rolleyes:

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yep 100% this especially not having any kids it irks me more, I also follow another food mukbanger who has her baby on show and gives her plastics and sharp chopsticks to play with while she films ugh
 
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Honestly I'm surprised she's anti sleep training and pro attachment parenting. I thought she'd be all about toughening her baby up
I have a theory that she’s using “attachment parenting” as an excuse to use her baby as a prop to get attention. She is a narcissist like that. Just like how she didn’t really care about who the father was, as long as she had a baby. It’s more about what she wants than what’s best for the child.

I also have a theory that she’s trying to prove to herself (and others) how “feminine” and “motherly” she is, because she’s been so hyper-masculine and stand-off-ish for so long, so now she’s overcompensating because she’s insecure.

Basically…I think she has a lot of complexes and she needs therapy.
 
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I’ve stopped watching her videos but still follow her on instagram and I can see when she likes stuff sometimes and 9/10 times is some weird alt right anti immigrant propaganda, now just saw she liked videos about the anti immigrant march in London, pro Charlie Kirk videos and she even follows him. Like she’s not an immigrant herself lol or wait when Western Europeans move elsewhere they are expats not immigrants I forgot 😂 and then she wonders why people might think she’s far right.
 
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She’s going to therapy now?

Anyone following her and watching her videos, what happened I thought she said therapy was useless and will not work for her
 

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Not Ilona but her friends Lucy - what has she been taking!? Congrats on her win but I just looked at her Instagram and omg that voice she sounds like a literal man.
 
I was just watching her stories where she was confused about a hate comment. I think what the person said is ridiculous but it brought up something else. She pointed to a study about breastfeeding with implants, but was quick to say it was 'just one study'. Interesting that when it is a study she disagrees with it is only one study but when it is something that she agrees with she will use one random study as proof. Like when she pointed to one random study about kids and sugar and ADHA correlations (that only had a sample of 100 kids total). That one study actually proved nothing, but the headline was something she agreed with so she shared it as a gotcha. If it proves what she wants it to prove it can be just one small study, but when it says something she doesn't like it is "just one study." Just a little something I noticed.
 
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Actually there are many research papers on that. People with implants do have increased amount of microplastics in their bloodstream, whether or not that causes anything I do not know. But of course breast implants are not linked to any sort of negative outcomes this is a multi billion dollar industry of course you could feed your baby microplastics any day without any issue. But when the large girls are showing food she’s the first to point out how unhealthy that everything is in plastic bag and microplastics. Yeah the apples sit in a bag for hours/day before you eat them Ilona, but the plastic implants are in you for years and you feed your baby with that from the first day of its life, so?
 
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Not Ilona but her friends Lucy - what has she been taking!? Congrats on her win but I just looked at her Instagram and omg that voice she sounds like a literal man.
I saw that she won to go to the pro qualifying show, can you imagine if she goes and wins the pro card lol Ilona would be so jealous
 
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I haven't watched Ilona in months - any interesting updates? Does she still think her child is the most advanced in the world?
 
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I have not been watching, but remember she previously said she was potty trained by the time she was 1 year old, so I expect her baby might be by the time they are 6 months old lol
 
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Decided to watch her latest video, she’s mostly criticising Alexandra’s parenting and also said she is potty training her child, the baby was born in late June, so almost 4 months old 💀
 
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Decided to watch her latest video, she’s mostly criticising Alexandra’s parenting and also said she is potty training her child, the baby was born in late June, so almost 4 months old 💀
I came here to see if anyone mentioned this... to be fair in a lot of parts of the world this is kind of normal. I worked in a daycare where a child was fully trained by 6 months. Elimination Communication is sooo time consuming but really works. I was a nanny and every child was 100% trained before they were 1 year old. I disagree with most of the things that Illona goes on and on about, but you can start potting training as early as 3 months if you want to really dedicate the time.
 
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I came here to see if anyone mentioned this... to be fair in a lot of parts of the world this is kind of normal. I worked in a daycare where a child was fully trained by 6 months. Elimination Communication is sooo time consuming but really works. I was a nanny and every child was 100% trained before they were 1 year old. I disagree with most of the things that Illona goes on and on about, but you can start potting training as early as 3 months if you want to really dedicate the time.
Katherine Ryan regularly bleats on about how her eldest was potty trained by 6 months old or whatever. If someone has the time when the kid is young I say give it a go. Might make life easier.

I find she constantly says she doesn't want to critsice Alex's parenting but ends up talking about it for half her video.
 
Katherine Ryan regularly bleats on about how her eldest was potty trained by 6 months old or whatever. If someone has the time when the kid is young I say give it a go. Might make life easier.

I find she constantly says she doesn't want to critsice Alex's parenting but ends up talking about it for half her video.
Oh she 100% criticizes Alex's parenting too much. Chikara is for sure someone who thinks she is the only one who does things correctly, and everyone else is inferior to her.
 
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I feel like an a for saying it, but seeing how incredibly quickly and irresponsibly she's masculinised her friend by clearly putting her on a wild amount of gear before even peaking natural potential horrifies me. Every time a repost comes up I genuinely think she's posted a man before realising. It hits me every time that she's neither a great athlete nor coach when the reliance is on drugs to get size - and probably more and more and more of them with irreversible side effects. It's so incredibly irresponsible!
 
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Ilona mentioned in her recent video that she is going to therapy and the Bulgarian salah is going with her. She says she has "attachment issues" and the Bulgarian salah also has attachment issues.
The have been together for 1 year and are already in therapy, this is quite odd to me tbh.

also her fixation on glitter and lazers sex/love life is very odd
 
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