Chikara Transformations (ilona)

[AnaBandana]

We all know but I also understand that she doesn’t want to speak about it just yet.
To some of you saying it’s too fast and they haven’t been together for long - I agree however Ilona has quiet a few times talked about how she wants a family and a baby and that she’s getting older. I can truly relate to this being 36 myself. Maybe this guy is the best thing and they will be together forever or maybe he is a decent guy and someone she can see being the father to her kid. A lot can happen and you can always find a new relationship but you can’t always have a baby. So a guy that’s decent and a good person is sometimes just fine enough

 

[PiefaceG]

We all know but I also understand that she doesn’t want to speak about it just yet.
To some of you saying it’s too fast and they haven’t been together for long - I agree however Ilona has quiet a few times talked about how she wants a family and a baby and that she’s getting older. I can truly relate to this being 36 myself. Maybe this guy is the best thing and they will be together forever or maybe he is a decent guy and someone she can see being the father to her kid. A lot can happen and you can always find a new relationship but you can’t always have a baby. So a guy that’s decent and a good person is sometimes just fine enough

Nah bro. You are signing yourself up to be tied to that man for at least 18 years, possibly life. You're also deciding who someone's father will be. That's a huge amount of responsibility and you'd better do your due diligence or you could end up with someone violent, or worse.

Hot take, but no one is owed a baby. They're not an accessory. If you're not as certain as you can possibly be that the man you've chosen to create life with is absolutely solid, don't have a kid. Wilfully traumatising a child or putting them in danger because you rushed to have them is incredibly selfish and negligent.

 

[HairyBerries]

Is it just me or does she strike others as well as someone who goes with the crowd and could do without a man/baby in her life and it isn't what she wants deep down

 

[PiefaceG]

Is it just me or does she strike others as well as someone who goes with the crowd and could do without a man/baby in her life and it isn't what she wants deep down

I honestly have no idea why she wants a kid. She's so self absorbed and selfish that I can't fathom why she wants to be a mother.

My best guess is internalised misogyny. She's probably heard some idiot guy on a podcast say women past a certain age without kids are useless or something.

Imagine what will happen when she realises that a baby doesn't fit around her gym and meal schedule

 

[HairyBerries]

I honestly have no idea why she wants a kid. She's so self absorbed and selfish that I can't fathom why she wants to be a mother.

My best guess is internalised misogyny. She's probably heard some idiot guy on a podcast say women past a certain age without kids are useless or something.

Imagine what will happen when she realises that a baby doesn't fit around her gym and meal schedule

Yeah, I get the same vibes. I mean just with how obsessed she is with bodybuilding and dieting, and imagine her posing in the mirror with a belly poking out lmao.


Being a mother can be a stressful 24/7 job, I don't think she should've got pregnant if she didn't want to shrivel up. Sorry for being harsh but it's just the truth.

 

[Foxinator83]

She already constantly complains about being tired and having a headache. Can you imagine how bad it is going to be?

She also will talk at a low volume to do a react because her bf is sleeping after working late. What is going to happen when the baby cries? Unless they move to a big house, a small crowded apartment with a baby and all her pets sounds like a nightmare.

 

[PiefaceG]

She already constantly complains about being tired and having a headache. Can you imagine how bad it is going to be?

She also will talk at a low volume to do a react because her bf is sleeping after working late. What is going to happen when the baby cries? Unless they move to a big house, a small crowded apartment with a baby and all her pets sounds like a nightmare.

She complains about money occasionally too. I sure hope she's crunched the numbers and can afford to raise the poor kid on her income. Can't trust that a man will pay his share, that's for sure.

 

[Hrosixx]

She wants to be a mum because this is another box to tick.

me being Bulgarian and knowing the culture there this man will not help with raising the kid and I don’t mean financial help I mean physically, most married women or women in relationships are basically married single mums …..she will be in trouble. The average salary in the capital city is 1400 euro gross, he is probably earning around that, he is from a village out in the countryside and they don’t own they have to pay rent… average rent prices are around 700 euro for two bed flats (the one she has) so yeah. I’m not sure about the financial part either

 

[HelloKittyLagerfeld]

She has been making a lot of "jokes" or quips about being bigger than she normally is.. or fluffy or whatever. I think she will have a reallly hard time gaining any weight with pregnancy.

 

[Foxinator83]

 

[Corona]

There we have it

 

[Hrosixx]

Did she say how far along she is, I can see I left a comment on 17th October saying I believe she will be pregnant soon I just want to see how close I was to the actual date lol

 

[Corona]

Did she say how far along she is, I can see I left a comment on 17th October saying I believe she will be pregnant soon I just want to see how close I was to the actual date lol

8.5 weeks. She found out a few days before her birthday

 

[Hrosixx]

8.5 weeks. She found out a few days before her birthday

Damn and she still did the Botox and filler procedures

 

[PiefaceG]

Damn and she still did the Botox and filler procedures

Already prioritising herself and her looks

 

[Hrosixx]

Already prioritising herself and her looks

She says she didn’t know she was pregnant but if she is at 9 weeks now, she would have known.
Anyways she says she researched and apparently in the first 3-4 weeks of pregnancy it’s not that bad because the “baby is not attached” lol.

I just don’t understand how she can have a baby with a total stranger I hope the baby is a boy

 

[PiefaceG]

She says she didn’t know she was pregnant but if she is at 9 weeks now, she would have known.
Anyways she says she researched and apparently in the first 3-4 weeks of pregnancy it’s not that bad because the “baby is not attached” lol.

I just don’t understand how she can have a baby with a total stranger I hope the baby is a boy

As ever, she'll cherry pick whatever research fits her narrative without reading it properly. I bet she'll go nuclear when the comments start calling her out on whatever stupid tit she'll do next.

 

[Nutsandseeds]

Ilona "I got pregnant so quick because I take my health seriously"

Also Ilona "I tried to pregnant within weeks of taking growth hormones and being dangerously underweight. I like to add wine, caffeine stimulants, botox and fillers in the early stages of pregnancy because I'm that responsible about health"

 

[Libertine1975]

As someone who would like a family but is single and a year or so younger than her I'm surprised at how quickly she has moved here.

I do think she is a caring person, you can tell with her pets etc bur she has serious issues with food and body image imo. She has competed in what seems to have been a toxic 'sport' for years and has taken drugs and supplements which have altered her body in a negative way (again imo).

I think her partner has a kind face but how much does she really know him after a few months?

I hope she has a healthy pregnancy, I am surprised she has announced early (I mean it was obvious from all the hints she dropped) but don't most people still wait for the 12 week mark?

 

[Corona]

As someone who would like a family but is single and a year or so younger than her I'm surprised at how quickly she has moved here.

I do think she is a caring person, you can tell with her pets etc bur she has serious issues with food and body image imo. She has competed in what seems to have been a toxic 'sport' for years and has taken drugs and supplements which have altered her body in a negative way (again imo).

I think her partner has a kind face but how much does she really know him after a few months?

I hope she has a healthy pregnancy, I am surprised she has announced early (I mean it was obvious from all the hints she dropped) but don't most people still wait for the 12 week mark?

I watched her live and her justifications were:
- he moved in a few weeks of them getting together so they know each other better than a normal couple that has been together for the same amount of time because they're together all day everyday.
- she thought it would take 6 months - year to get pregnant and was surprised it was this first. She said she got pregnant 2nd month of trying
- she's comfortable announcing now because her doctor said everything looks good and that she's unlikely to have a miscarriage (she went on and on about this and obviously has zero idea how a miscarriage works)
- she went on and on about how she's really looking after herself, training less, eating healthily blablabla because if she had a miscarriage because of something she did she'd never forgive herself (again, tell me you're clueless without telling me you're clueless...)