Chiara finally breaks her silence on her marriage and the cake scandal
Translated via Google for those whom speak English:
I have chosen silence in these months to try to protect myself and my family on two issues that have deeply affected me: on the one hand, the work issue, for which I will do everything in my power to assert my reasons and demonstrate my innocence, and on the other, the private issue, on which, now, I can no longer remain silent.
I lived 7 years of relationship in which I loved as I love, without brakes and with all of myself. I loved even when there were many reasons to abandon, I endured situations in which I would have said "don't let them do this to you" to any friend, because for me love was also this: sacrifice. Constantly minimizing the lack of respect and justifying wrong attitudes to protect the other party, to protect the family, to protect the couple.
Because I always considered myself the strong one, the independent one, the one who had to fight for everyone.
And so I didn't say anything even when I was dumped from one day to the next in my first difficult period last February, when I was struggling to get out of bed. I heard many times that I had kicked him out of the house, but it was never said that I kicked him out of the house after discovering a betrayal in those very days (just one of many evidently) and it was never said that he didn't hesitate to seize the opportunity so as not to be dragged into my "damage to my image". I didn't say anything publicly in the months that followed, not even after all the crap I discovered was constantly being done behind my back while I did everything I could to try to get him out of the dark moments, unaware of all this. I didn't say anything publicly even when, a few days before Christmas 2024, Federico called me (well aware that he was talking to me on the phone) and admitted for the first time the affair with this lover that had been going on since 2017 and also telling me that he had thought about not marrying me a few days before the wedding but then didn't know how to back out publicly.
I vomited, I understood that what I had experienced was a total joke but I suffered in silence, surrounded only by the closeness of those who truly love me and wishing for true love on both sides for the future.
I kept quiet because I wanted to turn the page without dwelling on the pain I had suffered and because I have two children who will hear everything their parents say about each other and will suffer because of certain statements.
But deciding together with his friend further details to be released publicly probably to take revenge for the unrequited love from his lover was a really low blow. Details like his call to his lover just before going up to the altar telling her that a sign from her would have been enough to give up everything or finding out about his messages to her before being operated on while in that bed there I was holding his hand and hoping every second to have that pain in his place just to not see him suffer are details too painful.
I have been silent on many topics but I read too much crap to continue to pretend nothing happened: my relationship with Federico was real for me, I have never been in an open relationship (it was evidently only open for the other party without my knowing it) and, despite everything, I am proud to have loved unconditionally. I am sorry that for the other party I was just a person to be made fun of and used at will but sometimes it is right to open your eyes, take the blow, suffer, get up and understand that we deserve something different. A love that is certainly not perfect but at least real and experienced by both parties in the same way.
I wish it for myself and I wish it for all of you, because it is the least in this chaos that is our life.
I thought they deserve each other… but I never was very invested in their story because I’m also not Italian and just sometimes came across their Instagram accounts.