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Greys1324

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I wish she’d just come out and say it. she’s definitely the type that checks in at hospital
 
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dear_ratboy

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She’s doing it all publicly to probably win the ex back. The new gf is a fitness freak and goes to the exs bootcamp thing. She also runs marathons.
 
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slothsays

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I know she had PND so I try not to comment too much but posting this list of things she doesn’t enjoy doing with her child!! Like don’t get me wrong some days I’m not thrilled about cooking but to say you don’t like playing with him, eating out with him, going on holidays. What the hell. Poor kid might see that one day.
 

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dear_ratboy

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I know! And now she’s moaning she can’t have another one. Like the one you actually have!

She spends no time with him. He’s in nursery 5 days a week and she’s out at least 1 day/night a weekend. And now she’s on about a solo retreat, be a mum and get over yourself ffs.
Even the whole “I’m working out” to him and him climbing on to her back and her Rolling her eyes as usual. It’s just not nice. I’d feel awful putting that online out there. She seems to hate being a mother. She’s clearly mentally unwell, I hope the child’s father steps up and spends Quality time with him. He’s a lovely little boy and like All toddlers needs love and meaningful playtime with his parent.
 
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Greys1324

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If she’s no longer with Matt she’ll be able to claim 85% of her nursery fees back through UC plus she might qualify for more benefits like housing so she’s likely got far more expendable income now than she did when she was with Matt.
Surely she would earn too much to claim anything? She must be on quite a lot as a PR manager who whatever she does.. if she can claim benefits the system is even worse than I thought!
 
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QwertyBert

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Sorry, I wasn’t clear - she was very keen for baby number 2 and he was absolutely against it. It was very hard.
 
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dear_ratboy

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I wish she’d just come out and say it. she’s definitely the type that checks in at hospital
check out his stories he’s pics up of them 🤷🏼‍♀️ Maybe she is just going through a rough patch. I have to say I think she is ok I just wish she’d come out and say What’s wrong or else just say nothing at all about it? I hope he didn’t cheat on her and if he did she should not take him back
 
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flozenge

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I used to really like her but i think she has some very deep seated issues surrounding her son. I have 2 toddlers and 2 older children (but still living at home) and the toddlers really are hard work but they’re so much fun and when it gets hard I have to remind myself that they’re all I ever wanted and I will absolutely miss this when it’s over as I’m not having anymore!

I feel as though her PND wasn’t dealt with properly and also sounds like her and Matt have broken up recently which will be a big change for all of them. Perhaps exacerbating Leo’s behaviour which won’t improve their relationship. We’re lead to believe that parent/child relationships are relatively easy because the love there is unconditional but I don’t always think that’s the case and sometimes those relationships require a lot of work! I hope she sorts it out. It’s glaringly obvious that she isn’t fond of him.
 
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dear_ratboy

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I do at times, due to have a little boy same age as hers and I know it’s bloody exhausting at times but there’s not a day really where she doesn’t have something to moan about
Same boat here 🙋🏼‍♀️ As difficult as it is at times the love and fun Always outweighs the hard parts. It’s horrible letting all her followers know so many private details and thoughts About her son.

Her partner or ex partner never posts their son on socials really. I’m sure he probably spends time with him but you don’t see him complaining about his child/his health/sleep etc. he’s actually a better role model than her when it comes to positivity on social media
 
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I’m taking by her silence she’s decided to take him. If I find who she’s flying with I will absolutely report her. Disgusting
 
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slothsays

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I was so surprised not to see a thread on her! She is pretty miserable. Sometimes I question whether she even likes her kid. 😳
 
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Twobecomingthree

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Surely she would earn too much to claim anything? She must be on quite a lot as a PR manager who whatever she does.. if she can claim benefits the system is even worse than I thought!
She lives in quite an expensive area and it’s postcode dependent. Even women on 40k can still claim in London and I don’t think she’ll be on over that amount at the moment.
 
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