BannedButBack
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DEAR MRS KIRBY,
Please understand this message is NOT hate ok.
Clearly you have been through some very hard struggles and you are an inspiration to still be even standing right now. You are incredible.
You are clearly a lovely lady who is kind and generous and again you should be commended for that.
I saw you dual live with Carebear this morning to confirm that the £600 to meet and greet was for charity and I’m sorry if some of us got that wrong - and assumed it was paid to Clare to meet her but hear me out ok…
NOBODY is saying you are vulnerable because of the loss of your husband or your baby. That doesn’t make you vulnerable - like you said this morning it’s made you stronger than ever. I hear you and again I commend you.
But please listen - these people are financially abusing you… and that’s what makes you vulnerable. Vulnerable from their financial abuse because they are allowing you to believe they are your friends.
They are taking your money… your gifts… allowing you to take them out on New Years Eve? Really? They are a family of FIVE - FIVE PEOPLE! Should they not be paying for you? Paying for yourselves?
Have they done anything to support you in memory of your husband or in memory of your baby? As “big creators” that they claim to be - have they come along side you to support you in that way or do a charity live in their memory?
What Tom Manly did to you the other evening with your wedding song was vile. Horrible. He played your emotions like a fiddle.
They say they beg you not to gift but if that is the case - why then when they are doing battles do they prance about shouting “Mrs Kirby is in the house” when you arrive….. why do they label you as a big gifter and not as their friend??
Friendship doesn’t cost money Mrs Kirby. But financial abuse does cost friendship.
Take care and know that there is no hate here only love for you… there is no shame in what has happened and the abuse they have inflicted upon you.
Much love
BBB xx
Please understand this message is NOT hate ok.
Clearly you have been through some very hard struggles and you are an inspiration to still be even standing right now. You are incredible.
You are clearly a lovely lady who is kind and generous and again you should be commended for that.
I saw you dual live with Carebear this morning to confirm that the £600 to meet and greet was for charity and I’m sorry if some of us got that wrong - and assumed it was paid to Clare to meet her but hear me out ok…
NOBODY is saying you are vulnerable because of the loss of your husband or your baby. That doesn’t make you vulnerable - like you said this morning it’s made you stronger than ever. I hear you and again I commend you.
But please listen - these people are financially abusing you… and that’s what makes you vulnerable. Vulnerable from their financial abuse because they are allowing you to believe they are your friends.
They are taking your money… your gifts… allowing you to take them out on New Years Eve? Really? They are a family of FIVE - FIVE PEOPLE! Should they not be paying for you? Paying for yourselves?
Have they done anything to support you in memory of your husband or in memory of your baby? As “big creators” that they claim to be - have they come along side you to support you in that way or do a charity live in their memory?
What Tom Manly did to you the other evening with your wedding song was vile. Horrible. He played your emotions like a fiddle.
They say they beg you not to gift but if that is the case - why then when they are doing battles do they prance about shouting “Mrs Kirby is in the house” when you arrive….. why do they label you as a big gifter and not as their friend??
Friendship doesn’t cost money Mrs Kirby. But financial abuse does cost friendship.
Take care and know that there is no hate here only love for you… there is no shame in what has happened and the abuse they have inflicted upon you.
Much love
BBB xx