I really need to know if I’m alone with this or how I get past it,but I simply cannot buy myself anything at all. I look at clothes and think ooo that’s nice,but it won’t suit me,or oh I’d best not I can’t really afford it. I literally have 2 pairs of leggings,3 tops and a couple of summer dresses. I have no bras and 6 pairs of knickers!! If my daughter,who’s now 18 and working,wanted something I know I’d get her it,so why oh why can’t I buy things for myself? I hate how I look and my self confidence is at zero,I feel like I don’t deserve anything. It stops me having a life though as I think I can’t do that I’ve got nothing to wear. I don’t know how to change it. Social media doesn’t help but I can’t steer myself away and my husbands ex is very well off and always looks lovely I don’t know what to do