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maytoseptember

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Esmé uses they pronouns which I have nothing against. I don't subscribe to the whole trans people/non-binary people are bad people let people including teens live how they want to live and she will never be critique for this by me.
I’m not saying they’re bad (that’s an extremely weird takeaway from my post) but I AM saying this is a social contagion that primarily affects depressed teenage girls, and far from being a harmless phase or being who they are, it invariably leads girls down a very dangerous path that ends with them cutting their breasts off, and poisoning themselves with testosterone.

People are far too keen on proving how open minded they are, instead of acknowledging that this is self harm taken to the next level.
 
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Spilttea

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All of Candice’s friendships with other women, especially other black women scream transactional, she has also never struck me as someone who cares much about anything if it doesn’t directly involve, affect or benefit her in some way.

Does she still mention Coco/Sarel who she used to do the pod with?
 
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Slatternly

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She’s a funny one. I admire her for her fitness journey. Ozempic or not, she’s a grafter and looks fantastic. I’m jealous of her stamina and focus with the fitness. But she’s such a pretentious arsehole.
 
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switzerland010

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I’m not saying they’re bad (that’s an extremely weird takeaway from my post) but I AM saying this is a social contagion that primarily affects depressed teenage girls, and far from being a harmless phase or being who they are, it invariably leads girls down a very dangerous path that ends with them cutting their breasts off, and poisoning themselves with testosterone.

People are far too keen on proving how open minded they are, instead of acknowledging that this is self harm taken to the next level.
Your transphobia is disgusting and it’s people like you who cause non binary people to try and hurt themselves because you don’t think they should be able to exist as who they are

I know plenty of non binary people who are perfectly happy but it’s bigots like you who are causing more harm
 
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The irony that she talks about HER consent in the caption, whilst overlooking her child’s right to privacy and destruction of her permanent, digital footprint.
Exactly. Imagine the child becomes an adult and never wanted the world to know what they went through as a teenager. Using her child as click bait to get people to pay to subscribe to her substack.
 
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She talks about honesty, but she needs to talk honestly about her weight loss. I have no doubt that her great exercise regime and attitude has played a massive role, but I have no doubt that weight loss medication has been added in the last 6 months.
As someone who has lost quite a significant amount of weight over the last year without any interventions, I feel a bit conflicted about comments like this.

I have yo yoed over years and I'm sure people think I've had help, but something just clicked and I credit tik tok for helping me to finally understand weight loss properly. I've upped exercise and work really hard, 10k steps a day and gym 4x a week and calorie counting.

I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt. She has lost a lot, but she has a smaller frame so it's probably not as much as we think. When you're that short, every pound makes a difference.

I've lost about 29kg since last February, but people only started noticing a lot this April so it seems drastic to them. Plus I've kept it quiet, as I always used to announce I was on a diet and fail.

Weight loss interventions have made people forget that we can lose weight without help. She works really hard with exercise, and whilst I acknowledge she has exercised for a while and not lost weight, it is possible that she has just finally got her diet on track.
 
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Peeltheavocado

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I'm basing it on the fact that she's exercised consistently for the whole time I've been aware of her but she's never lost weight. Suddenly, she lost a lot of weight, without an increase in exercise. Once you reach your goal weight, you won't be prescribed anymore GLP1 medication, she looks like she reached her goal weight a couple of months ago. Now she's getting bigger, again, without an increase in exercise. Muscle looks a certain way, she isn't just building muscle
I find her weight loss very triggering. I don’t mind that people lose weight.
I do mind how pretentious she about EVERYTHING
 
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maytoseptember

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I also came looking for a thread as I was stunned to see that instagram post. Awful! How can she make something like that all about her? Even the way it is written is totally gross like a fucking writing exercise.
I had to read the word salad twice before I even vaguely understood what she was on about.

Also, is Candice referring to her daughter as “they”? She has short hair too. When girls start identifying as not-girls, it’s a cry for help 🚩

You’ll never find a they/them girl who’s happy with her life. Poor kid. Raising teenage girls is no joke.
 
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DreamyGal

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I like her and I like her content but I do have to switch off when she speaks about 'goals manifesting etc' because she doesn't place it in context, like the fact some of us don't own a house isn't because we didn't manifest hard enough there's socio-economic issues.
 
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zetta buttons

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I follow some of the other people who were on the same @byrotation gifted trip with Candice. A poster on a thread of one of these influencers applied to find out the price of the chalet they were staying in. €490,000/week during high season. She can say everything she wants about manifesting this kind of trip and experience but imo she’s become so extreme and out of touch (including her wardrobe), it’s becoming a parody.
 
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zetta buttons

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She's just done a hyrox I think it's now a marathon
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I got pissed off with her fitness content so I unfollowed for a bit. I don’t know what it is about people these days but rest and recovery seem to be taboo words. Done a marathon? Let’s start the next block. Done a hyrox event? Immediately gets in the pool for a triathlon. The body cannot cope with the constant stress.

It will come back to bite them, take it from someone who had an exercise addiction and stress fractures and fucked Achilles to show for it.
 
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skyehigh

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I also came looking for a thread as I was stunned to see that instagram post. Awful! How can she make something like that all about her? Even the way it is written is totally gross like a fucking writing exercise.
 
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Hasanah123

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Her child reminds me of what Wentworth Miller said in his famous speech thsgd available online..

He too tried to do what her child did. And he said 'you only ask for help when there's help to ask for

Candice's child reminds me of him.

She doesn't give a shit. How is she out after her tried to end herself. HOW? I could never sleep evrr again if that was me.

Knowing that her child knows its Candice first then mother. Yeah the bitch is probably the same as her

Candice is the definition of i suffered so you'll suffer too. No maternal bone in her body.
 
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I’m not saying they’re bad (that’s an extremely weird takeaway from my post) but I AM saying this is a social contagion that primarily affects depressed teenage girls, and far from being a harmless phase or being who they are, it invariably leads girls down a very dangerous path that ends with them cutting their breasts off, and poisoning themselves with testosterone.

People are far too keen on proving how open minded they are, instead of acknowledging that this is self harm taken to the next level.
We can agree to disagree because I think this is just not a helpful take gender dysphoria is quite harmful to young people, I think surgery should be a post 16 thing but if children want to take puberty blockers then they should be allowed to because the consequences of not are more harmful.
But this is exactly why Candice should not post her children online because now look there is now a debate about Esme and her gender it's not nice
 
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Sliceofpizza

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Both of her children are very young to be contemplating suicide. I hope they're getting good psychological support
Straight here… Erm. This is really distressing and disturbing. All that chat chat chat for years, books, posts etc and now this has had happened a child. She’s totally self obsessed. I really feel sad and sorry for her children, honestly. My immediate thought was for her daughter who seems to always be chasing her mother’s shadow. Candice is a narcissist.
 
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