Re last ad, does she really think people look at her and think her life is perfect? We see how rubbish and unfulfilling your life is Emma don’t kid yourself.
it's astonishing the way she seemingly believes that anyone - even the most adoring and loyal babettes - are watching her car-crash of a life unravel in front of their eyes, and perceiving it as "perfect!" she is entirely deluded if she thinks her account represents some curated fairytale insta-perfect highlight reel, portraying her life through rose-tinted glasses - as though she somehow reflects everyone's ambitions in life:
- a lonely, loveless marriage.
- a dog you bought solely for content, who makes not secret of the fact that she hates you.
- two children who you exploit, place at risk, show extreme favouritism towards one and pit against each other to earn your attention - who will ultimately realise that you destroyed their childhood, were the reason they were bullied mercilessly at school, and make the decision to cut you out of their lives.
- issues with alcohol.
- an unhealthy relationship with food, to the point that your body has a worrying reliance on sugar.
- obvious unaddressed health issues which you refuse to acknowledge - unless it can be used to earn yourself symapthy.
- a total disregard for your physical health, regardless the impact that will have on your future.
- a past so embellished with lies and fabrications that you struggle to define the reality from the fantasy.
- a desperate need to external validation and attention - to the point that you have to pay a counseller to play the role of your own personal hype woman.
- the constant need for reassurance that you are a "great mum", specifically because you are aware of your failure as a parent and blatant inability to engage with your children or have an involvement in their upbringing.
- a total disregard for basic personal hygiene.
- a neglectful attitude towards parenting and household basic tasks, such as ensuring clothes are regularly washed, preparing nutritious meals for your children, emptying the hoover.
- massive insecurities about your appearance, to th epoint that you base your entire sense of self worth on your clothes size.
- an aggressive and violent temperament and a narcissistic personality with a proper nasty streak, which causes you to regularly emasculate your husband and belittle your son.
- a life where you prioritise television and social media over spending time with your family - to the point that you will only spend time with your son when you are paid to do. so.
- the belief that your children are your possessions are merely extentions of yourself who you have the right to exert control over.
- an overinflated sense of entitlement.
- a total inability to take accountability for your actions or accept any responsibility, blame or criticism for your behaviour.
- a tiny house absolutely crammed with tat and an excess of unworn fast fashion which you hoard to console yourself for the entire lack of meaning, fulfillment and purpose in your life.
- a collection of homemade excel certificates which you demand your husband print out to award you for completing basic adult tasks, because your life is devoid of any sense of achievement.
- an income based on exploiting your kids and behaving crudely online - a "career" which definitely has a short expiration date.
- such a lack of imagination and creativity that creating content for your "werk" relies in copying other people's ideas.
- that enviable triple threat of yellow hair, yellow teeth and waxy beige skin, which combine to age your appearance by at
least ten years.
- the waking and sleep routine of an actual toddler.
- no hope of ever working as a teacher ever again - let alone a lecturer - despite it being your future career goal.
- a total inability to live in the present - always focusing on the past and the future - which means you are totally missing out on your children's childhoods, coupled with an inability to allow them to grow up because you regret missing their toodlerhoods.
- an incredibly immature inability to deal with real world issues, such as war, covid, suicide, death, sex etc.
i mean, yeah babs - i was totally under the impression that you were living the dream!