Spencerskates
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I hope your other bridesmaid gets pregnant first!
No she really doesn’t take well to thinking it won’t happen. When I’ve mentioned friends before who have struggled or took a while it’s in one ear out the other a bit like it won’t happen to herI think you need to tread carefully on this one. The overwhelming thought I had reading this was that pregnancy doesn’t fit nicely into the timeline you have set yourself particularly down to the month! It’s mad to be thinking, well I will get pregnant straight away and then 9 months this will be the situation but it sounds like this was already said and she didn’t listen.
I think all you can really do is take her to one side and just ask her to not mention her plans it in front of the bridesmaid that is struggling as she was quite upset with it. It’s a shame the other bridesmaid didn’t sense that this was not an appropriate line of conversation, especially as she is not even pregnant yet but the time has come now to be direct with her as subtlety clearly didn’t work.