Thought I would post on here to see if anyone has experienced something similar. I was due to get married this year but unfortunately covid happened so it is now next year.
I have 3 bridesmaid one has been trying for a baby for about 18 months and one always had a plan to start trying at Christmas this year. The one who wants to start trying at Christmas is one in the nicest way she has a ‘life plan’ of where she wants a baby at certain point in her life. When we had to move our wedding to next year she had a slight wobble as she has plans next year to have a baby I told her she still could it didn’t need to change anything for her. She then said she will need a bigger bridesmaid dress next year as she will be pregnant and won’t be drinking on hen do. Again I said that’s fine we can sort that
Anyway we had a garden hen do at the weekend and people we’re talking about the wedding next year and she announces to everyone (only 6 people) that she will be pregnant at the wedding as her pregnancy needs to work around school holidays for the best maternity leave. So she will need a bigger dress as this point my other bridesmaid who has been trying looked uncomfortable I tried to change the subject but throughout the night she kept making reference to her being pregnant either by not drinking on hen do or how she will be a sober bridesmaid etc. Again my friend looked upset, one of my other friends did say to her as it had got a bit much that it might not work like that as her sister is really struggling to get pregnant she just shrugged and said about her life plan again. Also said the hen do would need to change to be more pregnant friendly (I don’t know what this is as it was a surprise).
I just wondered if anyone else had experienced something similar? Can I just say I have no problem with her being pregnant happy to get her bigger dress etc everyone life doesn’t not revolve around my wedding. It is more the constant reference to it especially when my other bridesmaid is struggling which she is aware off. I am not really sure how to bring it up with her without upsetting her
I have 3 bridesmaid one has been trying for a baby for about 18 months and one always had a plan to start trying at Christmas this year. The one who wants to start trying at Christmas is one in the nicest way she has a ‘life plan’ of where she wants a baby at certain point in her life. When we had to move our wedding to next year she had a slight wobble as she has plans next year to have a baby I told her she still could it didn’t need to change anything for her. She then said she will need a bigger bridesmaid dress next year as she will be pregnant and won’t be drinking on hen do. Again I said that’s fine we can sort that
Anyway we had a garden hen do at the weekend and people we’re talking about the wedding next year and she announces to everyone (only 6 people) that she will be pregnant at the wedding as her pregnancy needs to work around school holidays for the best maternity leave. So she will need a bigger dress as this point my other bridesmaid who has been trying looked uncomfortable I tried to change the subject but throughout the night she kept making reference to her being pregnant either by not drinking on hen do or how she will be a sober bridesmaid etc. Again my friend looked upset, one of my other friends did say to her as it had got a bit much that it might not work like that as her sister is really struggling to get pregnant she just shrugged and said about her life plan again. Also said the hen do would need to change to be more pregnant friendly (I don’t know what this is as it was a surprise).
I just wondered if anyone else had experienced something similar? Can I just say I have no problem with her being pregnant happy to get her bigger dress etc everyone life doesn’t not revolve around my wedding. It is more the constant reference to it especially when my other bridesmaid is struggling which she is aware off. I am not really sure how to bring it up with her without upsetting her