Yeah I agree I think she may of actually been crying cause she was upset with it as she mentioned not recommending it and how she felt like a prostitute and that it felt mechanical and not like sex she had previously? Maybe she didn’t expect it to effect her but it did but as you said probably didn’t want to delve into that on the doc as it goes against her saying she loves it etc
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I think she cried because she was very tired and hungry towards the end, not downplaying how it would have also affected her mentally but just probably not as much as the tears would portray given that she then posted about the goal of sleeping with 1000 men in 24 hours. There is something likeable about Lily though, I feel like she's very lonely.
I think she was definitely tired and hungry but think a lot of it came from feeling used perhaps? And the men probably not treating her in a very respectful way, whereas when she is actually filming with other adult creators the dynamic is probably way different.
I think she is a bit lonely and also feels isolated/low because, as she said in the documentary, she feels like people start with a low opinion of her.
It seems like (with the extreme numbers challenges) she’s got herself into something that she can’t get out of. It did seem odd for her to want to do 1000 when the 100 obviously affected her more than her everyday work
I think she is a bit lonely and also feels isolated/low because, as she said in the documentary, she feels like people start with a low opinion of her.
It seems like (with the extreme numbers challenges) she’s got herself into something that she can’t get out of. It did seem odd for her to want to do 1000 when the 100 obviously affected her more than her everyday work
A lot of extreme cornstars regret it later, how am I aware of this yet she isn’t - despite actually being in the industry. She was really fussed about making it a good experience for the large weird men that turned up, like making them feel comfortable and blah blah, like doubt they care, they just want their beat and that’s it. How could she finish knowing how weird they are 
she said she did one with learning difficulties .. that’s weird.
she said she did one with learning difficulties .. that’s weird.Yes definitely agree with this! From the way she described it and mentioning feeling like a prostitute etc would of been from feeling used it would of definitely been a different dynamic to her normal shoots with other of creators or adult stars. I just don’t know what it is about Lily but I find her extremely likeable she hasn’t built her brand on “barely legal boys” and had a following way before bonnie did. I actually think Bonnie modelled her dressing classy look but doing only fans off of Lily tbh.
Totally. Like I said, I really root for her. She used to do Day In The Life TikToks and would talk about clothes, makeup, influencer stuff and I thought she was a natural at it and I enjoyed them. She’s stopped now and deleted everything, I’m assuming due to a load of hate she gets?
I’m actually finding it quite frustrating seeing comments on clips from the doc because it’s clear no one’s watched it. If you had then I don’t get how anyone with half a brain and a heart could call her names and not feel for her
Yes!! This is what I liked her “day in the life” videos because it showed her actual personality and I liked her style, makeup and her showing what she would eat etc i dunno it just was an easy watch and felt natural I really do root for Lily too. She is completely different to bonnie if you have watched Lily before all this stuff you would know they don’t have the same personality at all and Lily is younger than bonnie and doesn’t say the outlandish crap bonnie does lol
I watched it and I don't feel sorry for her. Yes she was crying but 24 hours later she's shouting she's sleeping with 1000 men. I think to do what her and bonnie do you have to be pretty dead inside.
I am an entertainer and have been since I was 18, I'm so glad that they didn't have OF when I started because I did so many things I thought would be OK, and really didn't care about at the time when I was under 26, but now I am shocked at my behaviour and lack of foresight. It has deeply fked me up emotionally and now I am older I'm just so glad I didn't do anything with publicity or which is online forever! I feel like both of them are still young and the decisions they are making now don't seem as detrimental to their future as they may do in a few years time. I am really rooting for lilly, I feel she is just a genuine person, BB however is just doing it for the rage bait, I still think it certainly has the potential to damage her later in life too though. I hope they come out OK from this, but really not hopeful. Your judgement at that age is just so off!
Just watched the documentary with Lily (thank you to the poster who linked it!!!) she seems a nice girl, if a bit naive not worrying about her physical and medical safety.
I think she was crying because she was mentally and physically exhausted tbh. She probably had a shower, a meal and a decent sleep then woke up and saw the money start rolling in and thought about doing more and more.
I can see how making the sort of money that CAN be made (I know not all sex workers are millionaires - far from it) could become addictive in itself. I’m sure a lot of people start out saying they just want to make enough to pay off this debt or make that one specific purchase but it’s human nature to always want just a bit more.
I think it’s the mainstream publicity that pisses me off with both girls tbh, blueeyedkayla is another creator who I objectively like as a person but I wonder about how morally right it is to be flaunting money and designer items and acting like this line of work is glamorous and easy, on social media marketed for young teens. Let alone all the vile things Bonnie has been spouting for months.
I think she was crying because she was mentally and physically exhausted tbh. She probably had a shower, a meal and a decent sleep then woke up and saw the money start rolling in and thought about doing more and more.
I can see how making the sort of money that CAN be made (I know not all sex workers are millionaires - far from it) could become addictive in itself. I’m sure a lot of people start out saying they just want to make enough to pay off this debt or make that one specific purchase but it’s human nature to always want just a bit more.
I think it’s the mainstream publicity that pisses me off with both girls tbh, blueeyedkayla is another creator who I objectively like as a person but I wonder about how morally right it is to be flaunting money and designer items and acting like this line of work is glamorous and easy, on social media marketed for young teens. Let alone all the vile things Bonnie has been spouting for months.
I’d like to start by saying that I don’t support Bonnie Blue, at all. She’s akin to Andrew Tate to me.
However, I think the argument about what is “morally right” is interesting. Not picking at anyone’s post in particular, it’s just a phrase I’ve seen used a lot on this topic and I haven’t worked out how I feel about it.
Personally, I don’t think it’s immoral for them to show their lifestyles. Their job is a job at the end of the day and, again personally, I don’t find anything morally wrong with selling sex or sex work. Would we say the same about people who repeatedly buy cheap property in poor areas and flip it for a big profit and then put their lifestyle on social media? Or marketing execs for gambling companies? Or oil companies?
Everyone’s got a moral scale.
I do agree that the mass media coverage is the problem. Neither Lilly Phillips or Kayla market themselves to young girls - the responsibility for that is on social media companies imo. Also all the hysterical press (although I do agree Bonnie Blue deserves heat!) about what a bad example they are is only directing young girls to go take a look at them. It’s like when influencers have linked to tattle in the saying how horrible it is - it only sends more people here.
However, I think the argument about what is “morally right” is interesting. Not picking at anyone’s post in particular, it’s just a phrase I’ve seen used a lot on this topic and I haven’t worked out how I feel about it.
Personally, I don’t think it’s immoral for them to show their lifestyles. Their job is a job at the end of the day and, again personally, I don’t find anything morally wrong with selling sex or sex work. Would we say the same about people who repeatedly buy cheap property in poor areas and flip it for a big profit and then put their lifestyle on social media? Or marketing execs for gambling companies? Or oil companies?
Everyone’s got a moral scale.
I do agree that the mass media coverage is the problem. Neither Lilly Phillips or Kayla market themselves to young girls - the responsibility for that is on social media companies imo. Also all the hysterical press (although I do agree Bonnie Blue deserves heat!) about what a bad example they are is only directing young girls to go take a look at them. It’s like when influencers have linked to tattle in the saying how horrible it is - it only sends more people here.
Flipping houses or working for a corrupt company doesn’t necessarily compromise a persons personal safety or health which is what I felt was most worrying about the set up shown in the docu about lily phillips and is the first thing that comes to my mind when I think about a young girl (or boy) starting out in that line of work.
That documentary hurt my heart. The fact she said she could only remember 5-10 encounters means she’s mentally blocked it out because that’s your bodies way of dealing with trauma. She dearly found the experience traumatising. Shame on her manager as well who is just exploiting a vulnerable young woman for financial gain. I really hope she doesn’t go through with the 1000 men in a day challenge. I don’t think her mental health could take it.
One thing I found crazy about that documentary was how she went to Newcastle the day before until late, knowing she had the 100 guys in London the day after. Seems like there’s no thought at all for the long and short term future.
I also hated it when she spoke about being guilt tripped in to letting some men have longer with her and how she let them have their way
I also hated it when she spoke about being guilt tripped in to letting some men have longer with her and how she let them have their way
Yeah, this isn’t a professional sex worker, this is a young girl with serious self esteem issues.
this is exactly what I meant - even before when she was showing a lot of bravado about what she was planning when the interviewer asked her about security or STI checks for the people just being texted to come along on the day she responded that she hadn’t really thought about it. Then how upset she was and explaining how a few of the men had been a bit off with her. What could have happened if they DIDNT have security?
it’s worrying to me that they (creators) show the amazing side of their life - money and being flown out in holidays and to meet clients in hotel suites with champagne, (and yes I realise everyone shows the best side of their life on social media as is their right) which may entice an 18 year old into trying it out - but if they are naive and young like lily it does make me anxious the sort of trouble they could end up in.
Yeah I feel really sorry for her after watching that documentary. I’m not much older than her but she just seems like such a young, vulnerable girl. She seems sweet too but incredibly naive. I do think it’s going to be so much more difficult for her to find a partner in future who would be comfortable with her past. I think this will take a huge mental toll down the line. What happens after 1000 guys?
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