Bonnie Blue

[Mynoseisatme]

I feel like we are all a bit desensitised to the whole OF thing at the moment but coming across Bonnie and Lily (Phillips) genuinely shocked me. I think probably because that kind of behaviour was kept to a certain side of the internet whereas now we are exposed to it. It popped up on my TikTok FYP when I havent engaged with any content similar so I wonder how many children are being exposed to this? I also saw Bonnie recently on Saving Grace podcast and I know for a fact my 15 year old cousin is a massive fan of Grace and would regularly listen and tbh the thought makes me sick!!

I can’t help but find the behavior being promoted by her so incredibly damaging to herself and others. When she publicly brags about sleeping with large numbers of men or making statements like men have the right to cheat if their partners aren’t ‘servicing’ them enough, it sets a harmful precedent. Not only does it perpetuate dangerous stereotypes about women, but it also gives young, impressionable men a skewed idea of relationships and women’s value. As if we don’t already face significant challenges in society. The whole thing of “oh if he’s paying the bills, it’s the least you can do for him” is just absolutely insane to me. Does she believe a new father can go cheat on his postpartum partner cause she can’t give it to him for 6 weeks? I know some people say the whole thing is rage bait but she is still pushing messages that contribute to the objectification of women. It’s genuinely sickening.

 

[justonemorepage]

I think most of what she does is rage bait as she knows it keeps her "relevant" and in the media. She's not a girls girl and that is shown by her doing the 1000 men stunt before Lily to sort of get one up on her and get in there before her etc as everyone knew Lily was planning it for months.

My biggest issue with all of this is is that it perpetuates male sexual violence against women. She is offering herself up on a plate for men to use and abuse (biting, finishing on her face etc etc) and this undoes all of the work that women like Gisèle Pelicot have fought so hard for. This happened to Gisèle while she was drugged by her own husband and she has had to put herself through further hell to obtain justice while these girls just fling themselves into the exact same harm that was bestowed upon Gisèle. It's terrifying and tells men that women are nothing more than objects, and a hole, which they can do with as they please. What stops these men from doing it to other women in their lives? Taking what they deem as rightfully theirs. It's just sickening behaviour that sets women back decades after we have fought so hard to be seen as human beings and equals. I'm appalled that people in these young women's lives aren't trying to stop them on this path to self destruction. It's basically a form of self harm. That censored image above is just horrifying.

 

[Moonflower]

I think this is so grim. But what I find my horrifying, and creepy (and a bit sad) is where on earth is she finding a hundred blokes who are happy to go there after how ever many have been before. Are they really that desperate for sex? They are someone's son, someone's brother and this is the level of respect they have for women. Stop the world, I want to get off. I give up expecting better of men.

 

[jackolantern]

Honestly I'm all for flap freedom. The weirder the better, it's a mangled beef bandersnatch curtain cave of fun times. Who gives a fuck what it looks like, be weird ladies. Willies look like gonzo's fucking nose with two shrivelled swinging plum sacs either side and a wiry hair jungle that gets stuck in your teeth, and smells like old pumpkin at the best of times. We will always be more beautiful even if you look like you've gone 50 rounds with a combine harvester. FLAP PRIDE, Bonnie babe, you may be fucking mental but I'll defend your fanny for you x

I've had too much cider

 

[MiamooMoo]

If a man approached a waitress like that propositioning them they’d be done for harassment. She’s a dirty gowl.

 

[If i told you …]

What’s a fluffer?

A fluffer I’m told is someone who warms another person up for sex?! I’m 60 in two weeks time and I only found this out two years ago … when I had a fluffy duster in my hand and said to my husband come here while I fluff you up . He nearly spat out his tea

 

[Sunlifeover50]

Ffs it’s not like she’s stolen her 10 years research project into Quantum physics and she’s about to win a Nobel prize on the back of it. She’s just shagging some blokes.

 

[JuneJuneHannah]

Imagine rummaging around your blokes car and finding a blue balaclava the ultimate shame.

 

[Sunlifeover50]

I saw a comment on Twitter that said something like whilst she’s at it she could collect some DNA samples to pass on to the police because there’s bound to be a wanted abuser or murder somewhere in those 1000 men…. Absolutely grim

 

[gingrog]

You know when you've been out of a night, some grubby, lecherous creep stood staring? Usually being a pest by the dancefloor. You know nothing about his personal hygiene or his sexual health. Now imagine x1000 of them queuing to penetrate you. You've got absolutely no say in who does or doesn't.

CAN YOU IMAGINE!!! She's fucking disgusting.

 

[peachybum61]

No man of any value would line up for hours to supposdely shag someone for 45 seconds the men that do this genuinely need to be on some sort of list new irrational fear finding out your boyfriend once queued up for this

 

[Keera]

I’m a nurse and have placed many, many catheters - her labia is completely normal just another reason the porn/sex industry is pitting against women making us think anything other than tiny neat vaginas are abnormal

 

[zeezaag]

Her clitoris is large, but not abnormal. I think it’s so rude to say saggy flaps like a granny, her labia look completely normal to me. (I see them daily as part of my job).

I get that it’s tempting to hit back at someone who is awful like her, but targeting someone’s appearance (especially something as natural as the way their body looks) sets a dangerous precedent. Vulvas come in all shapes and sizes, and making fun of someone’s labia perpetuates harmful stigma that can affect anyone who doesn’t conform to some unrealistic standard. This kind of shaming can spread insecurity to others.

Yes, she may be a bad person, and her behaviour isn’t AT ALL excusable, but we can call out bad behaviour without resorting to the same level. Let’s focus on what people say or do - not on something that’s just a normal part of their body.

This is literally tattle. I’m not here to be nice. I said what I said. She has a micro penis sized clit.

 

[jackolantern]

The fact that no one can mention anything to do with race without this reactive behaviour is why it can’t ever be talked about in a healthy manner. It’s extremely childish, race is a factor that plays into many topics and should be able to be discussed, people have cultural differences, it’s a fact of life. Call me a racist as much as you want I refuse to keep living my life unable to discuss important topics like this because a few people decide to get petty and throw insults about immigrants and borders because that’s the only intelligent conversation they’ve got to offer - neither of which I ever mentioned.

 

[havingconversation]

To be fair most people who have commented on the appearance of her vulva (me included) have prefaced that by saying we know we all come in different shapes and sizes all of which are normal. I don't see the difference in commenting on this than commenting on anything else about anyones appearance on Tattle. Peoples weight, hair colour, style, personalities are all fair game on tattle. We don't know what other influencers neither regions look like, Bonnie puts it out there, if she didn't people wouldn't be able to comment. I've seen people on multiple threads comment negatively eg about someone's weight who would be slimmer than me, am I going to tell them not to comment or air their opinion? Absolutely not. Freedom of expression is important and tattle is for gossiping.

Virtue signalling on a Bonnie Blue thread is funny. She got famous off that vagina, so it's fair game to judge. Whoever compared it to criticising a singer is correct. If you're putting something online, then whoever sees it has the right to an opinion. Her content is her naked body. She shoves it in everyone's face (literally), so what? We just have to ignore how it looks?

And if people take those opinions to heart, then they need to realise that users are only making fun of the influencer. Nobody else. Bonnie Blue's name is on this thread. It's not about everyday women. I have also read comments that resonate with my own life, but I don't take it to heart because they are not directed to the average person. Even if it's not explicitly said, you should just assume with the context. I'm sure outside of this thread, people aren't criticising random vaginas and saying they look like dicks.

And it's interesting how we can go on about how Bonnie looks 40 to 50 years old, but nobody came to say we are ageist and spreading harmful stereotypes.

 

[Sluttybirkin]

I am an escort and have been since I was 18, I'm so glad that they didn't have OF when I started because I did so many things I thought would be OK, and really didn't care about at the time when I was under 26, but now I am shocked at my behaviour and lack of foresight. It has deeply fked me up emotionally and now I am older I'm just so glad I didn't do anything with publicity or which is online forever! I feel like both of them are still young and the decisions they are making now don't seem as detrimental to their future as they may do in a few years time. I am really rooting for lilly, I feel she is just a genuine person, BB however is just doing it for the rage bait, I still think it certainly has the potential to damage her later in life too though. I hope they come out OK from this, but really not hopeful. Your judgement at that age is just so off!

 

[Lalalalaaaaaa85]

A bit of light relief but I saw something online that made me laugh. You know the old meme ‘your Dad sells Avon’ I saw someone say ‘your Dad queues for Bonnie Blue’ epic new insult

 

[Winthropp Tuesday]

Someone’s mum turned up to take their son home

That mother has got more balls than any of the lowlives who turned up to this event. Hero.

 

[Upintheair83]

To be honest it's not about race, it's about any man who has a dick and thinks he can treat a woman like a piece of meat. That's what scares me- no matter what colour, religion, country, whatever job they do- these men are everywhere. It could be someone you know, someone you love. This sort of sexual behaviour is becoming normalised, this seclxual violence towards women is becoming the norm. Such scary times if you ask me. I haven't got a daughter but if I did I'd be worried sick.

 

[LoXLo]

What gives her the right to sexually harass someone at their place of work, it’s predatory and shouldn’t be promoted. I can’t wait until she fades into obscurity.