nellyloz123
VIP Member
I’ve just caught up on the threads and I’m really sorry but I feel like I have to say I disagree with some of the comments you’ve mentioned. I think accusing bullying is a very very dangerous thing to do.@fernly I hope you feel okay this morning, these threads (all the footballer ones - bar John Stones) seem to have taken a very spiteful & underhand tone just recently.
With a toddler & a full time job I read a hell of a lot more (across all different threads F1/Mrs Hinch & just discovered Elle Darby so that took some catching up!) than I post but it’s not hard to see & it’s only on these threads. What’s gone from genuine excitement from your 1st post last night has effectively become a mess teamed up as banter.
I am a fan of gossip, hence why I’m on a gossip web site but not it’s nice to see. you do see new members asking random questions at times, that may have been covered before some people raise to it, some get sucked into to believing it and others just let it pass. (See the Mason thread this morning )
There are people from all over that post & lurk on these pages, with English not being the 1st language for a few, meaning things get lost in translation but it is a real shame that honest jokes & laughs seem to have disappeared.
People seem to have formed genuine friendship groups outside of Tattle (I even tried to find them ) and I think that’s a great thing but please don’t let it amount to effectively taking the piss out of / bullying those that are not included in this and are just here for the
Now back to what we are all here for
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The chilly thread was set up off the back of the Mason thread by one of the OG’s. The girls (and few guys) are genuinely some of the nicest people I’ve ever (virtually) met.
If you’ve been a long time lurker you’ll know we’ve had some horrendous “newbies” come on the threads and bait us. We politely tell any newbies who come on for Instahoe chat that this isn’t that type of thread but they continue to goad us. We even made a wiki so people are aware. As always, people can post whatever the hell they want but we have every right to reply that we don’t do Instahoe chat. We’ve had teenagers on tumblr and TikTok absolutely SAVAGE us much worse than the banter we have on this page and other weird shit go on where I feel we’ve particularly handed very well.
Sorry if this offends anyone but I feel like I have to stick up for myself and the girls who’ve dealt with some right weird shite on here but we always welcome people with open arms and I’m sure some of the latest newbies who stuck around can vouch for that