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katiestewart

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I sometimes wonder if Ben has any genuine female friends that he could actually call “fam” like ones that he doesn’t sleep with and don’t use him for anything. Cos so far the only girls we’ve seen him with are ones that haven’t been around that long and start calling him fam (like Kelsey when she posted him last year)
Honestly I hope so. I feel like a girl bestie would be good for him. One that’s like a sister to him and keeps him on the straight and narrow. That’s optimistic thinking tho because I get the vibe from Ben that he can’t keep it in his pants and he’ll take any girl he can get

Hm… Huey, Dewey, and Louie seem to have some female friends they’ve probably know since school, I guess they’re also his friends to some extend. We just dont know about them because they’re not posting him.. 🤷🏼‍♀️
I just think it’s so lame calling someone you’ve known for 2 months „family“ and yes Kelsey did that too. A lot of people I know do that actually. It’s just weird to me. Seems phony but each to their own I guess.
Huey, Dewey and Louie 🤣😂😭
I agree with that too. It is so strange having that “family” label on people you’ve only known for a bit. I’ve got friends who are like family to me but I’ve literally known them for my whole life and they know me better than anyone. I can’t say cartia knows ben like the back of her hand… well maybe she does physically 😂
 
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eatpasta

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Sorry but I think he’s taking the piss out of her there’s no way he takes any of the weird shit she posts/says seriously. Probably funny watching her think her crystals are working 😂 out of all the girls he’s met do you really think it would be this one? Not to be harsh but after watching 2 vlogs and a podcast her personality isn’t great and the way the mates were acting on the night of the game and in the vlog he was in they’re all showing the same weird desperation.

Also bens not stupid we’re right about him being smarter than other ballers he knows she’s using him for the wrong reasons. Also I still follow Joanna and Penelope and they’re so much better looks and personality wise I can’t imagine him going for such a downgrade

Hiya - she is trained as an actress - 7 years - (see Storm Management etc) before she went into modelling etc. That is why she comes across as more confident as a lot of the other influencers I think and not worried about sharing her story. BTW not looked into this much AT ALL.. literally just got a vibe (its prob coz I am studying Psychology). No prob with her chasing her dream though and she is funnier than most. But when it comes to Ben ... she may be his Nemisis (that sounds v deep... 😂 😂 ) but hope not as they are both very social so could work!

Don't know what GG is.

sorry - Sports Psychology - very different!
About the confidence bit, real confidence is quiet. What cartia is showing isn’t confidence it’s something else 🤣
 
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soph101x

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Guys go on fan page addictedtocartamallan they have made a whole highlight I’m howling how they saved everything🤣
 
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katiestewart

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Have you guys seen Reece james likes on twitter hes ovs really annoyed with Gareth someone posted it on Twitter


Swear he hasn’t posted in months to🤣🤣🤣
I mean the tweet isn’t wrong is it? 🤷‍♀️ Harry Kane could have his leg amputated and he would still get the call up
 
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MissDolly

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Same. Is that him behind her on the golf cart that she happens to get in shot? I can see that Matty but the other guy?

The excitement of all this has gone now 😂 but I'm still intrigued as to how it will all play out 😂
Wonder if he told her to do that because he wasn’t bothered posting chelsea match and stuff🤣 maybe cos they were away


Yeh looks like Anish I think but it says Saturday the concert on her story🤣 so was the other day

Shes just looks like she’s posting them days later
Cartia posting her stories a day late is the funniest thing ever to me lol like who is she trying to convince? Ben and cartia must be one of the worst kept secret 😂🤣
I want to keep it private.. also me, I'm wearing his shirt y'all
 
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Poppy462

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Wonder if something has happened already? I know he's still following her but her stories are very intense this morning. They can't have got that serious that quick for her to be like this. She'll have to get used to him being away from time to time if it's serious. Wonder if she falls hard and fast.
Could be due to anything & some find this time of year especially difficult.
Good that she is talking about it & being open.
I think she gets very invested in her relationships. Maybe she will talk about it in the podcast
 
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Spectacles

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The question is - why hide the relationship 😅 🤔 Probably because there's no relationship?
Well, at least her friend is more professional - just working, doesn't post anything :LOL:
I agree. People know something is going on whether it's casual or something more serious. I think it's him more than her because she'd post loads if she could. However, she knows what she's doing. Her life is living on social media so leaving hints everywhere gets people talking and her engagement goes up etc.
 
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NPalop

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Hi girls! I'm new here to write, been just a reader.
Have you seen the stories of these dumb assholes? Fcking disgrace! Ohhhh I do call football a soccer, oh I know understand why people love football. What the f level is that?🤦‍♀️

Looks like cartia and co are having a little get together at bens house. I seen it on Ashton’s instagram stories. Looks like Harvey and Tom are there but no sign of Ben ☹
Looks like he wasn't there and actually noone cared😅
 
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soph101x

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To be fair I think with his injury if he posts anything not football related he’ll get slated in the comments for not focusing on recovery 🙄
Yep I think same! He really should consider turning his comments off we alll know he struggles with the hate in the past ! He hasn’t posted much the past year and I think why hes put stories up recently to show he’s working cos fans are annoyingg they would judge him for going on holiday when everyone else has had a holiday if they find out he’s away

I think fans sometimes forget footballers are humans like everyone else that have families and friends it’s a awful how much footballers get hate in there comments!
 
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MissDolly

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I know same!!! I still can’t believe Ben is a boyfriend?!?! Like Ben? Ben Chilwell? Being all lovey dovey? There’s no way!! 😂


How do I tell mason to post pics like this. Also is that 3 new tattoos 😱
My exact thought when I saw the pics.. come on Mason.. take example from your bestie
 
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