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soph101x

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Yeah so could be 3-6 months or something he’s still recovering from acl proper devasted for him what a set back
 
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dankeabernein

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Guys.. I’m still following Tumblr a little bit and this just came up ->
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I can’t 😭😭😭 Apparently we’re HORRIBLE to Tom. HORRIBLE!

Now I’m imagining Ben reading our threads. Hi Ben! 🤡😂
 
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rasperryripple

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You do know that only herpes can cause cold sores?!? Like you can have dry lips and be run down but it’s impossible to have cold sores without having caught herpes in your life
From NHS site
Cold sores are caused by a virus called herpes simplex.
Once you have the virus, it stays in your skin for the rest of your life. Sometimes it causes a cold sore.
Most people are exposed to the virus when they're young after close skin to skin contact, such as kissing, with someone who has a cold sore.
It does not usually cause any symptoms until you're older. You will not know if it's in your skin unless you get a cold sore.

So lots of people get the virus as children not just from sexual contact and it flares up when they are run down
 
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MissDolly

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He hasn't followed
You sound like Cartia with the “energy” thing 😅

No but I kinda agree. I think it works because she’s busy somewhere and he’s busy somewhere else. As far as we know they hang around a lot with friends and not so much alone. She isn’t depending on him and has her own “career”. Definitely seems like Ben needs a relationship where he doesn’t HAVE to see her all the time and can do ✨stuff✨ (🫠🫠🫠) with his boys ALONE. It doesn’t seem like both of them are loved up-though. But who knows, we only see the glimpses Cartia is showing us. Also Tumblr said he followed new girls from his private so… 🙈
I just used her words lol.. I was going to go as far as I could see his aura changed but I thought let's stop right there lol.. yeah I totally agree.. she's a free spirit and he doesn't like much of a commitment so it probably works for them
 
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katiestewart

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He’s right tbh

Like he keeps hide private he’s done well to keeep it private for months if it wasn’t for that fan account on insta it Probs wouldn’t of got out
If it wasn’t for cartia it wouldn’t have got out. We were noticing way before we even found that fan account. It might not have been sold to the papers if that fan account didn’t exist but we’d still know about their relationship regardless
 
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dankeabernein

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But that just proves he doesn’t actuallly like her 😂 when you like someone you actually wanna spend time with them 😂
Hm true 😅 he just seems like he’s not ready for a committed relationship, a “GROWN-UP” relationship. I mean the things he said in interviews.. his constant ✨bros before hoes✨attitude.. idk. I personally couldn’t bother with him hah 😂

@livy444 but we don’t know if they’re just want to keep it private? At least he keeps it private 🙈
 
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soph101x

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THIS - what??
Do you really think there's something?? 😂


Why strange? Escort normally works on the whole team and doesn't mean any emotional connection. That's not a "Pretty Woman" 😂
Surely if she was escort he wouldn’t of followed her mum
 
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BDY_97

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Not been on here in ages so just catching up. Idk why but I have a feeling it might actually be quite serious between them? I know he’s most known for being a whore so maybe not but I just get the vibes that they might actually be in a relationship. She’s a lot better than the ones he’s went for in the past so it wouldn’t necessarily be a bad thing I guess 🤣
 
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Spectacles

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Is it time to get predictions in how long this will last?
He's out for another 2 months so he'll be properly in love by then. I'm expecting an Eric Dier style proposal by then 😂

And here they are. Thanks Matty for the location, one click and boom 🫣
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Wonder what he was having for dinner. Chicken nuggets or fish fingers? Not an innuendo 😂 picky eater judging by that interview he did
 
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dankeabernein

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Ok I know you might come back at me on this but putting aside all the girls etc I think Ben is a wise soul - he does seem to be the go to for advise, v popular with friends, team mates and managers. He did say in the interview with Josh last Christmas he would get in trouble if he named a best friend as he has so many, and he was not boasting.
As to Cartia, I don't think she demands too much or pressurises him which works for him, she is just fun/easy to have around with a relaxed Auzzie attitude. Yes she posts out things but he does not seem to care anymore and perhaps has decided wtf not that bothered and just focusing on Chelsea/WC.
I can see them seeing each other for like two months total in a year haha. And the other times they’re doing their own thing 😅
Have they even seen each other ALONE except a few dates? 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
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dankeabernein

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It’s not always just the lifestyle or the money or whatever. Men (and people in general) know exactly what to say, what to do, how to emotionally blackmail their partners to make them stay. It’s hard to walk away. It’s really hard to walk away from a toxic relationship. You don’t even realise you’re in one most of the time.

That being said: obviously there are wags out there who know exactly what’s going on and accept it. Still I think that’s the minority and deep down they all are very, very insecure and afraid of finally leaving everything behind.. but what do I know 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
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Smca53

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And then she visited him in London and I think we have a video of them all dining 🧐 but I’m not sure
Yeah, with Harvey etc at the table.

Poor Tom and Harv seem to have been left out of this getaway 😢😢

God that place with its sparklers etc looks like every other shit and cringey place that lot all go to
 
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MissDolly

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She seemed desperate to get his follow with her follow-unfollow game but he just followed Cartia and I think after a few days she gave up 😭
That's why I'm pretty sure it was actually her who was interested in him...
I’m assuming she tried on her end but he didn’t reciprocate surely Ben couldn’t date her if she’d been with on of his best friends. That’s what makes me think nothing happened between mason and cartia

I saw a TikTok about her and Bono’s son but other than this I don’t have any information on what happened. Bethany and mason was a weird one as well lol considering one week she was at the Chelsea game and the next she was dating that Fulham player. I remember she wore this green jacket that mason has the same one of and turned out it was the Fulham boyfriends jacket and he had the same one

Bethany Moore. She came on the scene at the same time as cartia and went to the Chelsea game. There was a picture of her, cartia and mason on a night out and everyone went crazy. She’s now dating a Fulham player

Yay it let me post 🥳

Wasn't it at one point she claimed to be with him when they went to mykonos after the euros.. She reminds me of NYC.. tall and lanky with curly hair.. Mase does have a type, doesn't he?

I also don't think anything went on with Mase and Cartia, although he may have been her first option.. not saying that Ben is second best but I think she's more suited Ben's lifestyle
 
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