When it comes to the blame game the trophy goes to...VAL.
As far as Jess being unable to communicate......my child whose 25 now is medically " classified" as nonverbal autistic ..which meant we truly were living withn a huge communication deficit...so we as a family had to work WITH professionals, therapists, communication coaches/experts, learn modified ASL,rely on solid back and forth TEAM work with our daughters teachers, and ALL the professionals in her wellness/ education team...it took her until much later in life to speak her first word and today has well over 200 verbal words she uses..( 2 of which are please and thank you)as well as she is fluent in modified ASL.
Listening to Val claim Jessica wasn't able to tell her about her day at school..is a joke.
Why was Val not present AT the school? Why was Val not working WITH the school? Why was Val not attending meetings working together WITH Jessica's educational team?? It's her job to work with them to ensure she and her educators are on the same page working on the same goals...continuing the education at home...being consistent with the plan SHE and the Team put together!
If VAL was actually participating in Jessica's education she would know exactly what was going on in Jessica's day.
( as for the food deprivation at school....that's code for the teachers wouldnt allow Jessica to take other people's food...we see how she's obsessed with food. If Val sending her lunch to school then how was she deprived? she wasnt ...Jess wolfed down her lunch in 5 bites like she does at home and wanted more while everyone else was still eating lunch... And Jessica had fits because of it...again Vals fault not the teachers)
Because Jessica doesn't CHOOSE to talk about anything except dead dogs, obsess about how much food she can eat, dirty rap and disney....isn't the teachers fault it's VALS.
Jessica is schizophrenic...and her " Disordered thoughts" which is her self talk in OTHER people's voices, carrying on conversations as other people , making up death and illness stories about others( coach for example, and the delusional stories Jess makes up...Val claims she had " dreams"...more lies, not dreams, hallucinations and delusions) are just a few signs that reinforce Jess' s true illness...so when her autism teachers...and therapists tried to explain this to Val..she didn't want to hear it. So in her head no one understands her Jessica...which in reality the only one who doesn't understand Jessica's illness is Val.
The fact Val chooses to have the entire family ( except porn boy) all lie, and live in Jessica's delusional make believe world of studying nursing, Moving out with her girlfriend , having a pretend job, etc...all the lies they tell Jess..to placate her....keep her calm, manageable pretty much says it all.
This is not how autism families live/cope....
I'm no doctor but it's clear Jessica CAN communicate exactly what she wants when she wants it...her pauses and lost unorganized thoughts is a schizophrenic trait and is clearly not being addressed she's not taking medication for it as she's continuously going through manic phases and Val choses to control it by LYING to jessica, ( studying, nursing, buying her own house, Moving to Disney etc...) And having her " TEAM" which is her daughter, mother and Marlow...NOT a single expert or autistic educational adviser involved or on her " team"....why????
Because Jessica is not autistic nor is she being medically treated for pure autism. She may display a few traits but that is not her primary diagnosis...period.
The autistic professionals , DOCTORS, teachers ,community in Vals area have clearly given their expert opinions and recomondations for Jessica which clearly Val didn't like.
Crying autism ...gets Val more money, government cash, more opportunities as well as sympathy then having a schizophrenic 35 yr. Old.
That's the bottom line.
It's not .... no one else understands Jessica ...it's that the REAL autism teachers, doctors, therapists DO and that's why they are no longer involved or part of the TEAM. Only friends and family who will agree to lie and abuse the system...and do exactly as Val orders.
We see you Val..you are a disgrace.